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A Positive Attitude ( just for EVERYday ) :)
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"That old nest of negativism followed me everywhere I went." Basic Text, page 135 A negative attitude is the trademark of active addiction. Everything that occurred in our lives was someone or something else's fault. We had blaming others for our shortcomings down to a fine science. In r...
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The "G" Word ( Just for Today )
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"It is important for you to know that you will hear God mentioned at NA meetings. What we are referring to is a Power greater than ourselves that makes possible what seems impossible." IP No.22, "Welcome to NA" Most of us come to Narcotics Anonymous with a variety of preconcepti...
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"The truth will make you free, but first it will make you angry."
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Can you relate? I sure can "Anger is only a symptom of what is really going on" Whats really going on? best answer " I dunno" LOL One time I heard a famous radio psychologist tell her listener " Oh you know whats going on, you just dont want to admitt it" Is there sh...
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1 year clean today
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Thanks to my higher power, NA and all of you that made this possible http://www.recoverygreetings.com/cards/pickup/89863074.html -- Edited by BigV at 22:50, 2007-07-05
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wedding invitation
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Our Wedding ReceptionWill be held at Pearsall Memorial Church3902 Market Street, Wilmington, NC Saturday, July 7th, 2007Dinner at 7 PM Dancing Startsat 8 PM Map To Wedding - Hugh MacRae ParkMap To Reception - Pearsall Memorial Church
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JFT ~ I'm Sorry
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"The main thing the Eighth Step does for us is to help build awareness that, little by little, we are gaining new attitudes about ourselves and how we deal with other people." Basic Text, page 38 To say "I'm sorry" probably isn't such a foreign idea to most of us. In our active add...
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(closed)
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-- Edited by BigV at 12:00, 2007-07-06
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traditions
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NO ONE NO MATTER HOW SICK SHOULD EVER BE BANNED FROM NA I DON'T CARE HOW SICK THEY ARE OR HOW MUCH GOSSIP IS DONE ABOUT A PERSON THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS EVERYONE BELONGS IN NA ONLY A DESIRE RIGHT? THAT HAS BEEN PROVEN DIFFERENT AT LEAST I AM NOT AS SICK TO SAY WHO BELONGS SOMEONE ONCE SAID ALL IT EVER TOOK WAS A...
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Self-esteem (something I read)
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I once had a beautiful plant. It sat on my dining room table for three weeks as I waited for it to blossom. Each week, I waited for something to happen. By week three, instead of a luscious blooming bush, what revealed itself was a dry, shriveled piece of nothing. I stormed angrily into the florist's shop...
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amends
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I am in the mist of dealing with med changes i have good days and i have bad ones In all honesty I have DID and I don't know how at one point ppl were drawn to me and my devotion and recovery to not being welcome I just know i must have been outta control i am just now starting to have "normal" days my pr...
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I have missed you all
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Hi friends, boy its been a while sorry . Between getting setteled in my new home conventions and my son and I cellabrating our cleen time, its gotten a bit busy around here. I have to say I honestly was reading the posts but staying at a distance because of some of the conflict I saw. I just wish we could all t...
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Quite an experience hiring then firing an NA member
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to help me paint, he did a few things that just blew me away, not acceptable and I played along in order to keep myself from getting angry, he even tried to con me out of extra money on his pay so he could get a cell phone,,, B.S not happening here. So told him there was no more work I didn't feel like going arou...
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Keeping Recovery Fresh
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June 29 Keeping Recovery Fresh"Complacency is the enemy of members with substantial clean time. If we remain complacent for long, the recovery process ceases."Basic Text, p.80 After the first couple of years in recovery, most of us start to feel like there are no more big deals. If we've...
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Fear
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What's your biggest fear sober?
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Quiet Time { Just for Today }
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"Many of us have found that setting aside quiet time for ourselves is helpful in making conscious contact with our Higher Power." Basic Text, page 92 Most of us pay lip-service to the value of conscious contact with a Higher Power. Yet how many of us consistently take time to improve that co...
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It's the simple things
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I was just listening to some music and randomly clicked on a a song and heres what came up, Kenny Chesney - Simple Things No I ain't had nothing to drink I knew thats probably what you'd think If I dropped by this time of night Remember way back when I promised you I'd drop in At one of those meetings down at th...
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Maintaining The Foundation [ Just for Today]
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"Our newly found faith serves as a firm foundation for courage in the future." Basic Text, page 93 The foundation of our lives is what the rest of our lives is built upon. When we were using, that foundation affected everything we did. When we decided that recovery was important, that's whe...
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SERENITY this one will getcha :)P
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Group Conscience
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June 28 Group Conscience"Working with others is only the beginning of service work."Basic Text, p.56Service work calls for a selfless devotion to carrying the message to the still-suffering addict. But our attitude of service cannot stop there. Service also requires that we look at o...
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Divisions
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Hello All, It's obvious there are disagreements in our forum regarding the banishment of a member and it's very tempting to take sides. I see posts deleted and others edited. There will always be diffirences of opinion. It's how we deal with them that is vital. "Our leaders are but trusted serva...
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Felt Like Sharing...
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I have just come back from out of town. I had been to another town where NA has just taken birth They had reached out to our Area Service Committee for support, and a few of us drove down for a PR Event there. The Event went well, and I felt so grateful to be a part of this great miracle. I'm not too much PR savv...
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Something I heard in a meeting
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Our will compared to God's will. Our will = starts out easy ends up complicated Gods will = starts out hard ends up easy. Something like that
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Tolerance.....................(JFT 6/24/07)
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Tolerance Tolerance "...ever reminding us to place principles before personalities." Tradition Twelve Sometimes it's hard to accept others' character defects. As we recover together, we not only listen to others talk in meetings, we also watch how they walk through their recovery....
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" Just for Today" Change and Growth
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"When someone points out a shortcoming, our first reaction may be defensive. There will always be room for growth." Basic Text, page 35 Recovery is a process that brings about change in our lives. We need that change if we are to continue our growth toward freedom. It's important that we re...
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Addiction: Brief summarys
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1. Being abnormally dependent on something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming (especially alcohol or narcotic drugs) 2. An abnormally strong craving 3. Is a progressive disease; the disease effects us in the following general ways. Mentally, we become obsessed with thoughts...
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Tolerance.....................(JFT 6/24/07)
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Tolerance Tolerance "...ever reminding us to place principles before personalities." Tradition Twelve Sometimes it's hard to accept others' character defects. As we recover together, we not only listen to others talk in meetings, we also watch how they walk through their recovery....
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help?
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I don't know if I'm doing the right thing by posting here or not, but I need to reach out to people who understand addiction (also, I plan to attend NA meetings in my area to support my boyfriend while he's going through rehab). I'm curious if they're going to tell him to stay away from me after he gets out of...
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Surrender ( just for Today)
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"We didn't stumble into this fellowship brimming with love, honesty, open-mindedness, or willingness....When we were beaten, we became willing." Basic Text, page 20 Surrender may be the necessary foundation for recovery, but sometimes we fight it. Most of us look back after some cle...
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Accepting Life As It Is (Just for Today)
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"In our recovery, we find it essential to accept reality. Once we can do this, we do not find it necessary to use drugs in an attempt to change our perceptions." Basic Text, page 87 Drugs used to buffer us from the full force of life. When we stop using drugs and enter recovery, we find ourselve...
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One final meeting tonight then i'm leaving the board ( for awhile )
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Thats it for me i've pretty much come to an end of my service here and yes it's been forced on me to make this decision. That's life. Take care everyone some of you have my email and are welcome to contact me anytime I will remain a member but won't be posting at all anymore. I appreciate all of you here and wis...
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