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Is it normal for my recovering addict husband to be ignoring me and my kids??
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My husband is a recovering heroin addict. He was clean for almost 8 years until he just relapsed. Now he has 5 months clean and is a complete asshole. I kicked him out of our house in January and he went on a binge for about a month before getting sober. Now he is living in a sober house on a lake and going...
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JFT July 16 Self-esteem
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Deep inside, I had feelings of inadequacy and inferiority. =Somewhere along the way, many of us developed strong feelings of inadequacy and inferiority. Deep inside was a voice that continually cried out, Youre worthless! Many of us learn to recognize this characteristic of low self-estee...
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JFT July 15 Relations with others
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We made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.Step Eight=All human beings struggle with self-centeredness. The chronic self-centeredness that lies at the very core of addiction makes that struggle doubly difficult for people like us. Many of us have l...
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Being Clean, playing my music !
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A concert I did on Saturday...great feeling !
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Dealing with a Chronic Illness in Recovery
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Hi Everyone, I am new to this forum and would love some input. I have been blessed to be clean in the Narcotics Anonymous program since October 17, 1998. Since September of last year, I have been dealing with a chronic, undiagnosed health condition. I have a few questions. Are there NA forums, maybe in t...
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JFT July 14 An "inside job"
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Social acceptability does not equal recovery.Basic Text, p. 22=One of the first things that happens to many of us in recovery is that we start to look better. We get healthier; we bathe; we dress more appropriately. And without the goading of active addiction, many of us finally stop stealing, l...
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JFT July 13 Humility in Action
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If we are hurting, and most of us do from time to time, we learn to ask for help.Basic Text, p. 83=Sometimes recovery gets downright difficult. It can be even more difficult to get humble enough to ask for help. We think, I have all this time clean. I should be better than this! But the reality of rec...
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JFT July 12 Patience
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We were trapped by our need for the instant gratification that drugs gave us.Basic Text, p. 25=I want what I want, and I want it now! Thats about as patient as most of us ever got in our active addiction. The obsession and compulsion of our disease gave us a one-track way of thinking; when we wanted so...
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My husband is the 'addict' and I'm a little angry, I think
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Not sure how to start here. If it's not one type of something it's another that he pulls out for a while. Then it seems to go into regression and then 'bam' he's slurry and ack again. I have to admit that he sure hid this from me. Really well. We'll be married 2yrs next month.. and wow. I had brothers who we...
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JFT July 11 Encouragement
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We share comfort and encouragement with others.Basic Text, p. 99=Many of us have watched as babies take their first steps. The mother holds the child on its feet. The father kneels nearby with outstretched arms, encouraging the little one, his face flooded with devotion. The baby takes a few s...
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Uh?
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So my sponsor and I have been working pretty closely. I have more "dry"? Time than her, but I figure if she knows more than I do, that's what matters, right? I just finished working my 90x90 and my cousin (has 6 years working the program) asked me to spend a few days with her at the beach house wit...
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JFT July 10 A positive attitude
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That old nest of negativism followed me everywhere I went.Basic Text, p. 137=A negative attitude is the trademark of active addiction. Everything that occurred in our lives was someone or something elses fault. We had blaming others for our shortcomings down to a fine science. In recovery, o...
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Great News and an update on my son!
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First... there's an NA meeting starting up in my city again!! I'm so excited and I'm so scared all rolled into one! So I think I'll lurk outside for a bit to see if I recognize anyone that may blab my situation to everyone and their dog... regardless though, I'm still not sure if I have what it takes to walk t...
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JFT July 9 We do recover!
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...the time has come when that tired old lie, Once an addict, always an addict, will no longer be tolerated by either society or the addict himself. We do recover.Basic Text, p. 89=From time to time, we hear speakers share that they dont really understand spiritual principles yet. They tell us th...
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Hi All...
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I had 12 years clean,But lost my tools on the way,(RELAPSED)Which i have since found....So my best guest is August 17 2010....Best i can remember,sO AFTER MY "BUMP" On Meth,I have about 1 yr + clean,Glad to be here....Drummer
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JFT July 6 "I'm sorry"
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The main thing [the Eighth Step] does for us is to help build awareness that, little by little, we are gaining new attitudes about ourselves and how we deal with other people.Basic Text, p. 39=To say Im sorry probably isnt such a foreign idea to most of us. In our active addiction, it may have been a ve...
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JFT Jul 7 God in each other
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One aspect of our spiritual awakening comes through the new understanding of our Higher Power that we develop by sharing another addicts recovery.Basic Text, p. 52=Weve heard it said that we often see God most clearly in one another. We see the truth of this when we practice our Twelfth Step. Whe...
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JFT July 8 The "G" word
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It is important for you to know that you will hear God mentioned at NA meetings. What we are referring to is a Power greater than ourselves that makes possible what seems impossible.IP No. 22, Welcome to NA=Most of us come to Narcotics Anonymous with a variety of preconceptions about what the word G...
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4th July Cape Cod
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i enjoy holidays and don't drink. Looking up an old friend in P town. GG where are you? Hope she isn't using.
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New on the board
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Just got on to the message board. Been clean for 6 months. I'm looking for a sponser. I need some help dealing with family and the views they have of addicts like me. Glad NA is here for me.
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DAMMIT
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stupid me.
I went on YouTube, surfin around... Stubled across some stuff about aa and bill w. Video about a letter from some chick Henrietta to some dude Horace, where she writes a few things about his behavior. Followed by lookin at bill ws use of LSD (and at this point I'm pissed he got to claim a spi...
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ok im going to let myself be vulnerable for a couple minutes. im going mad with my emotions and i really need to go to a meeting. the only problems is im scared. i havent gone to a meeting in years and im scared to death. how do i overcome this?
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mugshots
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If I pay to remove my arrest record from Mugshots.com, will my mugshot and info also be removed from other websites appearing in search results?
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JFT July 3 Quiet time
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Many of us have found that setting aside quiet time for ourselves is helpful in making conscious contact with our Higher Power.Basic Text, p. 95=Most of us pay lip-service to the value of conscious contact with a Higher Power. Yet how many of us consistently take time to improve that conscious con...
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JFT July 4 Conflict
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We learn that conflicts are a part of reality, and we learn new ways to resolve them instead of running from them.Basic Text, p. 90=From time to time, we all experience conflicts. It may be that we just cant get along with that new coworker. Maybe our friends are driving us crazy. Or perhaps our par...
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JFT July 5 Exploring spiritual options
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The nature of our belief will determine the manner of our prayers and meditation.Basic Text, p. 44=How do we pray? For each NA member, this is a deeply personal matter. Many of us find that, over time, we develop a manner of prayer and meditation based on what we learn from others and what we are comf...
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I am a 55-year old mother of three beautiful children and a recovering alcoholic/addict who relapsed last fall. i am clean again now, as of May 7, 2012, and having a hard time. Alcohol is not the problem, that's easy enough for me not to use at this point, it's the vicodin and Tylenol 3 and, I was never...
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Playing games!
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hi all.. heres a share request. Id love to hear yall on this follwing topic. Its like this; I know that developing or renewing a hobby is something that many of us do on the recovery route. I was lucky to be introduced to billiards/snooker when I was a few years clean. It was explained by a psychiatrist fri...
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Anyone interested in camping and hunting on here?
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Hi Folks! My name is Mac. I will have 24 years sober/clean in November of this year (2012). I am a bowhunter and am interested in having an event in the fall that would include some camping with a bonfire meeting at the end of the day. I have a thread open on Archery Talk (a large archery forum) asking if ther...
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JFT July 2 Comparing
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Our personal stories may vary in individual pattern, but in the end we all have the same thing in common.Basic Text, p. 87=We addicts are a varied bunch, coming from different backgrounds, having used different drugs, and recalling different experiences. Our differences dont disappear in rec...
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