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Dave R · Dave R

There is a special feeling for addicts when they discover that there are other people who share their difficulties, past and present. Basic Text, pp. 55-56 = The wealth of our recovery is too good to keep to ourselves. Some of us believe that when we talk in meetings, we should remember the newcomer...

Dave R · Dave R

Those who make it through these times show a courage not their own. Basic Text, p. 86 = Before coming to NA, many of us thought we were brave simply because we had never experienced fear. We had drugged all our feelings, fear among them, until we had convinced ourselves that we were tough, courageou...

Dave R · Dave R

Also, our inventories usually include material on relationships. Basic Text, p. 29 = What an understatement this is! Especially in later recovery, entire inventories may focus on our relationships with others. Our lives have been filled with relationships with lovers, friends, parents, c...

Dave R · Dave R

The purpose of a searching and fearless moral inventory is to sort through the confusion and the contradiction of our lives so that we can find out who we really are. Basic Text, p. 27 = Using addicts are a confused and confusing bunch of people. Its hard to tell from one minute to the next what theyre g...

Raman · Raman

A wonderful share, reposted with permission. When we question whether or not we are worthy of something it is important at that time to shift into gratitude. We all know what its like to finally get something we want, only to find ourselves feeling as if we dont deserve it. Whether its a car, a new j...

Dave R · Dave R

The get-togethers after our meetings are good opportunities to share things that we didnt get to discuss during the meeting. Basic Text, p. 98 = Active addiction set us apart from society, isolating us. Fear was at the core of that alienation. We believed that if we let others get to know us, they w...

Manon · Manon

just got back from houston on friday as i stayed one night at hotel to pass out as the drive was a last minute choice the ppl i was with are the real kinda con artist they have ppl visit that they meet online i barely made it home a friend had to rent a room for me that i actually met on this site in 05 as i was falli...

BigV · BigV

Its been a very rough 6 months or so, I found out after one more time of trying to be in a relationship with long time girlfriend that she married her second best boy friend HAH. She wanted me to marry her, she had left him after being engaged to him to see if it would work with me, she did everything in her pow...

Dave R · Dave R

A sponsor is not necessarily a friend, but may be someone in whom we confide. We can share things with our sponsor that we might not be comfortable sharing in a meeting. IP No. 11, Sponsorship, Revised = Weve asked someone to sponsor us, and the reasons we have for asking that particular person are a...

Dave R · Dave R

Many times in our recovery, the old bugaboos will haunt us. Life may again become meaningless, monotonous, and boring. Basic Text, p. 78 = Sometimes it seems as though nothing changes. We get up and go to the same job every day. We eat dinner at the same time every night. We attend the same meetings e...

Dave R · Dave R

It will not make us better people to judge the faults of another. It will make us feel better to clean up our lives... Basic Text, p. 38 = Sometimes we need something tangible to help us understand what holding a resentment is doing to us. We may not be aware of how destructive resentments actually are...

learning to trust other members · kateallen

I am coming back from relapse and have had mostly wonderful contact with NA over the last 20 years. But I have also been really burned by trust, and I don't want to trust anyone again. Lucky I have a good sponsor, but I dont know how to say hello without wondering why you'd talk to me. so hello. feel free to sa...

Dave R · Dave R

The steps are our solution. They are our survival kit. They are our defense against addiction, a deadly disease. Our steps are the principles that make our recovery possible. Basic Text, p. 19 = Theres lots to like in Narcotics Anonymous. The meetings, for one, are great. We get to see our friends...

JGump · JGump

I'm in need of advice... I guess a little background is in need. I come from an alcoholic and pot smoking mother who passed away several years ago. I was married to a pot smoking husband, since divorced. I use to drink and smoke pot, quit both... I started attending Al-Anon last year and I sometimes have u...

Dave R · Dave R

In the past, we made simple situations into problems; we made mountains out of molehills. Basic Text, p. 90 = Making mountains out of molehills seems to be our specialty. Have you heard it said that to an addict, a flat tire is a traumatic event? Or how about those of us who forget all pretense of princ...

Dave R · Dave R

What we want most is to feel good about ourselves. Basic Text, p. 101 = Well love you until you can learn to love yourself. These words, heard so often in our meetings, promise a day we look forward to eagerlythe day when well know how to love ourselves. Self-esteemwe all want this elusive quality as s...

Dave R · Dave R

The good times can also be a trap; the danger is that we may forget that our first priority is to stay clean. Basic Text, p. 43 = Things can get really good in our recovery. Perhaps weve found our soul mate, built a rewarding career, started a family. Maybe our relationships with our family members ha...

Manon · Manon

I have been inHouston for the past week with socail anxiety trip got cut short...I got home sick :P missed mom and being close to her although this was the best time i have had since all the pysco shrinks bullshit on here for me to leave town and relax with no worries of "is he around to find me?" t...

Dave R · Dave R

As a result of the Twelve Steps, Im not able to hold on to old ways of deceiving myself. = We all rationalize. Sometimes we know we are rationalizing, admit we are rationalizing, yet continue to behave according to our rationalizations! Recovery can become very painful when we decide that, for on...

Manon · Manon

when they say Texas is big they mean it in every aspect the drink cups are HUGE i am shocked by some of the stuff here but the fact that i can relax with out looking over my shoulder is great it feels so good to be less anxious its unreal. Knowing I dont have to "sneak" around is good for me the weathe...

ANNY · ANNY

I have not been on this form for a few years now. I receive e-mails for a post I subscribed to, the Birthdays post. So i did not forget about this forum. I am working with one of my sponsees and she is having a hard time getting to meetings, so i remembered what I did when I had that issue...I found you wonde...

avid · avid

I heard someone share at a meeting the other day, that their sponsor told them that the important phrase in the basic test says "Unless you change absolutely everything about your thoughts and actions you WILL, not might but you WILL return to using" He said this with tremendous convictio...

Astrid · Astrid

I'm new here and hoping that this forum will help me kick my addiction with adderall. I was diagnosed as "ADD" four years ago and prescribed concerta. I have poor attention skills, but basically I was looking to get on methamphetimines solely for the purpose of losing weight. When concert...

Dave R · Dave R

When a need arises for us to admit our powerlessness, we may first look for ways to exert power against it. After exhausting these ways, we begin sharing with others and find hope. Basic Text, p. 82 = Weve sometimes heard it said in our meetings that rude awakenings lead to spiritual awakenings. Wha...

Dave R · Dave R

This program has become a part of me.... I understand more clearly the things that are happening in my life today. I no longer fight the process. Basic Text, p. 127 = In active addiction, things happened seemingly without rhyme or reason. We just did things, often without knowing why or what the res...

pegcmp0822 · pegcmp0822

Hello, new to the forum here. I will try to be brief in my post: - I am unable to stop a ravenous addiction to adderall - I have told nobody and am hesitant to do so - I am here wondering if anyone has experience with adderall addiction and hopefully some advice on a path to recovery - Has anyone here been in me...

Dave R · Dave R

There will be times, however, when we really feel like using. We want to run, and we feel lousy. We need to be reminded of where we came from and that it will be worse this time. This is when we need the program the most. Basic Text, p. 81 = If were contemplating a relapse, we should think our using through...

Davethewave · Davethewave

I have a young sponsee that is struggling. He is very smart, but dumb too, like many of us!! He has been doing the work, and calling me regularly as well. So he called me the other day, and said he was having the worse day of his life. His estranged father had just taken his own life, and he felt really bad th...

Dave R · Dave R

Any form of success was frightening and unfamiliar. Basic Text, p. 14 = Before coming to NA, few of us had much experience with success. Every attempt to stop using on our own had ended in failure. We had begun to give up hope of finding any relief from active addiction. We had grown accustomed to fail...

Dave R · Dave R

[The] Power that brought us to this program is still with us and will continue to guide us if we allow it. Basic Text, p. 27 = Ever had a panic attack? Everywhere we turn, lifes demands overwhelm us. Were paralyzed, and we dont know what to do about it. How do we break an anxiety attack? First, we stop. We...

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	JFT March 18 The full message (Preview) There is a special feeling for addicts when they discover that there are other people who share their difficulties, past and present. Basic Text, pp. 55-56 = The wealth of our recovery is too good to keep to ourselves. Some of us believe that when we talk in meetings, we should remember the newcomer...	Dave R	0	359	Mar 18, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 17 True courage (Preview) Those who make it through these times show a courage not their own. Basic Text, p. 86 = Before coming to NA, many of us thought we were brave simply because we had never experienced fear. We had drugged all our feelings, fear among them, until we had convinced ourselves that we were tough, courageou...	Dave R	1	297	Mar 17, 2013 by cdbuckberry
	JFT March 14 Relationships (Preview) Also, our inventories usually include material on relationships. Basic Text, p. 29 = What an understatement this is! Especially in later recovery, entire inventories may focus on our relationships with others. Our lives have been filled with relationships with lovers, friends, parents, c...	Dave R	2	299	Mar 17, 2013 by avid
	JFT March 16 Inventory (Preview) The purpose of a searching and fearless moral inventory is to sort through the confusion and the contradiction of our lives so that we can find out who we really are. Basic Text, p. 27 = Using addicts are a confused and confusing bunch of people. Its hard to tell from one minute to the next what theyre g...	Dave R	0	241	Mar 16, 2013 by Dave R
	Sense of worthiness. (Preview) A wonderful share, reposted with permission. When we question whether or not we are worthy of something it is important at that time to shift into gratitude. We all know what its like to finally get something we want, only to find ourselves feeling as if we dont deserve it. Whether its a car, a new j...	Raman	5	340	Mar 16, 2013 by Raman
	JFT March 15 Feeling "a part of" (Preview) The get-togethers after our meetings are good opportunities to share things that we didnt get to discuss during the meeting. Basic Text, p. 98 = Active addiction set us apart from society, isolating us. Fear was at the core of that alienation. We believed that if we let others get to know us, they w...	Dave R	0	286	Mar 15, 2013 by Dave R
	holiday from hell (Preview) just got back from houston on friday as i stayed one night at hotel to pass out as the drive was a last minute choice the ppl i was with are the real kinda con artist they have ppl visit that they meet online i barely made it home a friend had to rent a room for me that i actually met on this site in 05 as i was falli...	Manon	4	328	Mar 14, 2013 by BigV
	I can learn something here from you all (Preview) Its been a very rough 6 months or so, I found out after one more time of trying to be in a relationship with long time girlfriend that she married her second best boy friend HAH. She wanted me to marry her, she had left him after being engaged to him to see if it would work with me, she did everything in her pow...	BigV	5	248	Mar 13, 2013 by BigV
	JFT March 13 That one special person (Preview) A sponsor is not necessarily a friend, but may be someone in whom we confide. We can share things with our sponsor that we might not be comfortable sharing in a meeting. *IP No. 11, Sponsorship,* Revised** = Weve asked someone to sponsor us, and the reasons we have for asking that particular person are a...	Dave R	0	273	Mar 13, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 12 Getting out of the rut (Preview) Many times in our recovery, the old bugaboos will haunt us. Life may again become meaningless, monotonous, and boring. Basic Text, p. 78 = Sometimes it seems as though nothing changes. We get up and go to the same job every day. We eat dinner at the same time every night. We attend the same meetings e...	Dave R	1	188	Mar 12, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 11 Lightening the load (Preview) It will not make us better people to judge the faults of another. It will make us feel better to clean up our lives... Basic Text, p. 38 = Sometimes we need something tangible to help us understand what holding a resentment is doing to us. We may not be aware of how destructive resentments actually are...	Dave R	0	165	Mar 11, 2013 by Dave R
	learning to trust other members relapse trust surrender service burn-out decades in NA (Preview) I am coming back from relapse and have had mostly wonderful contact with NA over the last 20 years. But I have also been really burned by trust, and I don't want to trust anyone again. Lucky I have a good sponsor, but I dont know how to say hello without wondering why you'd talk to me. so hello. feel free to sa...	kateallen	4	4101	Mar 11, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 10 Our own recovery (Preview) The steps are our solution. They are our survival kit. They are our defense against addiction, a deadly disease. Our steps are the principles that make our recovery possible. Basic Text, p. 19 = Theres lots to like in Narcotics Anonymous. The meetings, for one, are great. We get to see our friends...	Dave R	0	195	Mar 10, 2013 by Dave R
	Advice for a not so much of a "normie" (Preview) I'm in need of advice... I guess a little background is in need. I come from an alcoholic and pot smoking mother who passed away several years ago. I was married to a pot smoking husband, since divorced. I use to drink and smoke pot, quit both... I started attending Al-Anon last year and I sometimes have u...	JGump	4	507	Mar 10, 2013 by avid
	JFT March 9 Small things (Preview) In the past, we made simple situations into problems; we made mountains out of molehills. Basic Text, p. 90 = Making mountains out of molehills seems to be our specialty. Have you heard it said that to an addict, a flat tire is a traumatic event? Or how about those of us who forget all pretense of princ...	Dave R	0	248	Mar 9, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 8 Learning to love ourselves (Preview) What we want most is to feel good about ourselves. Basic Text, p. 101 = Well love you until you can learn to love yourself. These words, heard so often in our meetings, promise a day we look forward to eagerlythe day when well know how to love ourselves. Self-esteemwe all want this elusive quality as s...	Dave R	0	324	Mar 8, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 7 Priorities (Preview) The good times can also be a trap; the danger is that we may forget that our first priority is to stay clean. Basic Text, p. 43 = Things can get really good in our recovery. Perhaps weve found our soul mate, built a rewarding career, started a family. Maybe our relationships with our family members ha...	Dave R	2	327	Mar 7, 2013 by MIKEF
	trip is coming to an end! (Preview) I have been inHouston for the past week with socail anxiety trip got cut short...I got home sick :P missed mom and being close to her although this was the best time i have had since all the pysco shrinks bullshit on here for me to leave town and relax with no worries of "is he around to find me?" t...	Manon	3	251	Mar 7, 2013 by MIKEF
	JFT March 6 Rationalizing away our recovery (Preview) As a result of the Twelve Steps, Im not able to hold on to old ways of deceiving myself. = We all rationalize. Sometimes we know we are rationalizing, admit we are rationalizing, yet continue to behave according to our rationalizations! Recovery can become very painful when we decide that, for on...	Dave R	0	255	Mar 6, 2013 by Dave R
	loving Texas (Preview) when they say Texas is big they mean it in every aspect the drink cups are HUGE i am shocked by some of the stuff here but the fact that i can relax with out looking over my shoulder is great it feels so good to be less anxious its unreal. Knowing I dont have to "sneak" around is good for me the weathe...	Manon	4	250	Mar 6, 2013 by BigV
	Almost 5 yrs (Preview) I have not been on this form for a few years now. I receive e-mails for a post I subscribed to, the Birthdays post. So i did not forget about this forum. I am working with one of my sponsees and she is having a hard time getting to meetings, so i remembered what I did when I had that issue...I found you wonde...	ANNY	6	251	Mar 6, 2013 by BigV
	Anyone ever hear this? (Preview) I heard someone share at a meeting the other day, that their sponsor told them that the important phrase in the basic test says "Unless you change absolutely everything about your thoughts and actions you WILL, not might but you WILL return to using" He said this with tremendous convictio...	avid	7	461	Mar 6, 2013 by BigV
	Adderall Addict of three years. (Preview) I'm new here and hoping that this forum will help me kick my addiction with adderall. I was diagnosed as "ADD" four years ago and prescribed concerta. I have poor attention skills, but basically I was looking to get on methamphetimines solely for the purpose of losing weight. When concert...	Astrid	4	2579	Mar 6, 2013 by helloguys
	JFT March 5 From rude awakening to spiritual awakening (Preview) When a need arises for us to admit our powerlessness, we may first look for ways to exert power against it. After exhausting these ways, we begin sharing with others and find hope. Basic Text, p. 82 = Weve sometimes heard it said in our meetings that rude awakenings lead to spiritual awakenings. Wha...	Dave R	0	298	Mar 5, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 4 The process (Preview) This program has become a part of me.... I understand more clearly the things that are happening in my life today. I no longer fight the process. Basic Text, p. 127 = In active addiction, things happened seemingly without rhyme or reason. We just did things, often without knowing why or what the res...	Dave R	0	237	Mar 4, 2013 by Dave R
	Adderall Help (Preview) Hello, new to the forum here. I will try to be brief in my post: - I am unable to stop a ravenous addiction to adderall - I have told nobody and am hesitant to do so - I am here wondering if anyone has experience with adderall addiction and hopefully some advice on a path to recovery - Has anyone here been in me...	pegcmp0822	5	304	Mar 4, 2013 by pegcmp0822
	JFT March 3 Relapse (Preview) There will be times, however, when we really feel like using. We want to run, and we feel lousy. We need to be reminded of where we came from and that it will be worse this time. This is when we need the program the most. Basic Text, p. 81 = If were contemplating a relapse, we should think our using through...	Dave R	0	328	Mar 3, 2013 by Dave R
	Tough time for Sponsee (Preview) I have a young sponsee that is struggling. He is very smart, but dumb too, like many of us!! He has been doing the work, and calling me regularly as well. So he called me the other day, and said he was having the worse day of his life. His estranged father had just taken his own life, and he felt really bad th...	Davethewave	2	242	Mar 3, 2013 by avid
	JFT March 2 Success (Preview) Any form of success was frightening and unfamiliar. Basic Text, p. 14 = Before coming to NA, few of us had much experience with success. Every attempt to stop using on our own had ended in failure. We had begun to give up hope of finding any relief from active addiction. We had grown accustomed to fail...	Dave R	0	212	Mar 2, 2013 by Dave R
	JFT March 1 Anxiety attack! (Preview) [The] Power that brought us to this program is still with us and will continue to guide us if we allow it. Basic Text, p. 27 = Ever had a panic attack? Everywhere we turn, lifes demands overwhelm us. Were paralyzed, and we dont know what to do about it. How do we break an anxiety attack? First, we stop. We...	Dave R	0	202	Mar 1, 2013 by Dave R
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