Narcotics Anonymous Message Board

Dave R · Dave R

My gratitude speaks when I care and when I share with others the NA way. Gratitude Prayer = The longer we stay clean, the more we experience feelings of gratitude for our recovery. These feelings of gratitude arent limited to particular gifts like new friends or the ability to be employed. More fr...

Dave R · Dave R

There is one thing more than anything else that will defeat us in our recovery; this is an attitude of indifference or intolerance toward spiritual principles. Basic Text, p. 18 = When we first came to NA, many of us had great difficulty accepting the spiritual principles underlying this program...

Dave R · Dave R

Being involved in service makes me feel worthwhile. = When most of us arrived in Narcotics Anonymous, we had very little self-worth left to salvage. Many members say that they began to develop self-esteem through being of service early in their recovery. Something just short of a miracle occu...

Dave R · Dave R

Ongoing recovery is dependent on our relationship with a loving God who cares for us and will do for us what we find impossible to do for ourselves. Basic Text, p. 99 = How often have we heard it said in meetings that God does for us what we cannot do for ourselves? At times we may get stuck in our recovery...

Dave R · Dave R

We can also use the steps to improve our attitudes. Our best thinking got us into trouble. We recognize the need for change. Basic Text, p. 55 = When new in recovery, most of us had at least one person we just couldnt stand. We thought that person was the rudest, most obnoxious person in the program....

kiwi843 · kiwi843

Is anyone available to chat with me? Chat room is empty :(

Dave R · Dave R

Living just for today relieves the burden of the past and the fear of the future. We learned to take whatever actions are necessary and to leave the results in the hands of our Higher Power. Basic Text, p. 94 = In our active addiction, fear of the future and what might happen was a reality for many of us...

Dave R · Dave R

We want to look our past in the face, see it for what it really was, and release it so we can live today. Basic Text, p. 29 = Many of us had trouble identifying our resentments when we were new in recovery. There we sat with our Fourth Step in front of us, thinking and thinking, finally deciding that we jus...

Dave R · Dave R

The most effective means of achieving self-acceptance is through applying the Twelve Steps of recovery. IP No. 19, Self-Acceptance = Most of us came to Narcotics Anonymous without much self-acceptance. We looked at the havoc we had wreaked in our active addiction, and we loathed ourselves....

alyqat4 · alyqat4

I feel sad when people bag on AA in meetings or say "the other fellowship" I mean c'mon you can't even say the name of our founders? I love AA and am proud of it. I go to AA meetings sometimes but most of my exposure to it is from the Big Book. I participated in a BB study and it was amazing. I could not...

Dave R · Dave R

Through abstinence and through working the Twelve Steps of Narcotics Anonymous, our lives have become useful. Basic Text, p. 8 = Before coming to Narcotics Anonymous, our lives were centered around using. For the most part, we had very little energy left over for jobs, relationships, or other a...

Dave R · Dave R

Many of us understand God to be simply whatever force keeps us clean. Basic Text, p. 25 = Some of us enter recovery with a working understanding of a Higher Power. For a lot of us, however, God is a troublesome word. We may doubt the existence of any sort of Power greater than ourselves. Or we may re...

Dave R · Dave R

This is our road to spiritual growth. Basic Text, p. 37 = When we arrived at our first NA meeting, it looked like the end of the road to many of us. We werent going to be able to use anymore. We were spiritually bankrupt. Most of us were totally isolated and didnt think we had much to live for. Little di...

Dave R · Dave R

We have found that we had no choice except to completely change our old ways of thinking or go back to using. Basic Text, p. 22 = Many of us find that our old ways of thinking were dominated by fear. We were afraid that we wouldnt be able to get our drugs or that there wouldnt be enough. We feared discover...

BigV · BigV

"Although honesty is difficult to practice, it is most rewarding." Basic Text, page 92 How difficult we find it to be honest! Many of us come to NA so confused about what really happened in our lives that it sometimes takes months and years to sort it all out. The truth of our history is not alw...

Dave R · Dave R

Addiction is a family disease, but we could only change ourselves. = Many of us come from severely damaged families. At times, the insanity that reigns among our relatives feels overwhelming. Sometimes we feel like packing our bags and moving far, far away. We pray that our family members will...

murphkr · murphkr

Hello, I am just over 100 day's abstinent from opiates. I was a regular user for 8 years, I am now 26 years old and feel like a frightened new born abandoned by it's mother and left to fend for itself. I don't know how to operate or function sober, it's like somebody else entirely has had control of the whee...

Little Mermaid · Little Mermaid

Can anyone please help me by sharing their experience of malicious gossip in the fellowship. -- Edited by Little Mermaid on Monday 14th of April 2014 12:34:55 PM

Dave R · Dave R

...approval-seeking behavior carried us further into our addiction.... Basic Text, p. 14 = When others approve of what we do or say, we feel good; when they disapprove, we feel bad. Their opinions of us, and how those opinions make us feel, can have positive value. By making us feel good about ste...

Dave R · Dave R

So many times, addicts have sought the rewards of hard work without the labor. Basic Text, p. 34 = When we first came to NA, some of us wanted everything, and right away. We wanted the serenity, the cars, the happy relationships, the friends, the closeness with our sponsorall the things other peopl...

Dave R · Dave R

We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. Step Seven = Once we are entirely ready to have our character defects removed, many of us are entirely ready! Ironically, thats when the trouble really starts. The more we struggle to rid ourselves of a particular defect, the stronger that short...

Dave R · Dave R

I initially felt that it would be impossible to attend more than one or two meetings a week. It just wouldnt fit in with my busy schedule. I later learned that my priorities were [180] degrees reversed. It was the everything else that would have to fit into my meeting schedule. = Some of us attended m...

Dave R · Dave R

April 16 Acting as if Today, we seek solutions, not problems. We try what we have learned on an experimental basis. Basic Text, p. 58 = The first time we heard that we should act as if, many of us exclaimed, But thats not honest! I thought we were always supposed to be honest about our feelings in Narcoti...

Dave R · Dave R

We have come to enjoy living clean and want more of the good things that the NA Fellowship holds for us. Basic Text, p. 27 = Can you remember a time when you looked at the addicts recovering in NA and wondered, If they arent using drugs, what on earth do they have to laugh about? Did you believe that the fu...

Dave R · Dave R

Do we really want to be rid of our resentments, our anger, our fear? Basic Text, p. 34 = Why do we call them shortcomings? Perhaps they should be called long-goings, because thats often what it takes for them to fade from our lives. Some of us feel that our shortcomings are the very characteristics...

LWin · LWin

Yesterday I would have been out of rehab for a week and I already relapsed. I informed my hubby and though disappointed he was glad I at least was honest. I gave him my meds to take as I really don't trust myself as much as I hate to admit it. But even worse is the depression that has been worsening each day sin...

Dave R · Dave R

A new idea cannot be grafted onto a closed mind.... Open-mindedness leads us to the very insights that have eluded us during our lives. Basic Text, p. 96 = We arrived in NA at the lowest point in our lives. Wed just about run out of ideas. What we needed most when we got here were new ideas, new ways of l...

Dave R · Dave R

All spiritual awakenings have some things in common. Common elements include an end to loneliness and a sense of direction in our lives. Basic Text, p. 50 = Some kinds of spiritual experiences take place when we confront something larger than we are. We suspect that forces beyond our understan...

Victory · Victory

I am new here. Could someone explain what this site is about? And would someone please talk to me? Victory

Dave R · Dave R

We must use what we learn or we will lose it, no matter how long we have been clean. Basic Text, p. 85 = After putting some clean time together, some of us have a tendency to forget what our most important priority is. Once a week or less we say, Ive gotta get to a meeting tonight. Its been... Weve been ca...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	JFT Sharing our gratitude (Preview) My gratitude speaks when I care and when I share with others the NA way. Gratitude Prayer = The longer we stay clean, the more we experience feelings of gratitude for our recovery. These feelings of gratitude arent limited to particular gifts like new friends or the ability to be employed. More fr...	Dave R	1	419	May 4, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT May 2 Just maybe... (Preview) There is one thing more than anything else that will defeat us in our recovery; this is an attitude of indifference or intolerance toward spiritual principles. Basic Text, p. 18 = When we first came to NA, many of us had great difficulty accepting the spiritual principles underlying this program...	Dave R	3	380	May 3, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT May 1 Self-worth and service (Preview) Being involved in service makes me feel worthwhile. = When most of us arrived in Narcotics Anonymous, we had very little self-worth left to salvage. Many members say that they began to develop self-esteem through being of service early in their recovery. Something just short of a miracle occu...	Dave R	1	656	May 3, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 30 God does for us (Preview) Ongoing recovery is dependent on our relationship with a loving God who cares for us and will do for us what we find impossible to do for ourselves. Basic Text, p. 99 = How often have we heard it said in meetings that God does for us what we cannot do for ourselves? At times we may get stuck in our recovery...	Dave R	2	409	May 3, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 28 Who really gets better? (Preview) We can also use the steps to improve our attitudes. Our best thinking got us into trouble. We recognize the need for change. Basic Text, p. 55 = When new in recovery, most of us had at least one person we just couldnt stand. We thought that person was the rudest, most obnoxious person in the program....	Dave R	2	503	May 1, 2014 by mikah
	someone to talk to? (Preview) Is anyone available to chat with me? Chat room is empty :(	kiwi843	8	496	Apr 30, 2014 by mikah
	JFT April 29 "What if..." (Preview) Living just for today relieves the burden of the past and the fear of the future. We learned to take whatever actions are necessary and to leave the results in the hands of our Higher Power. Basic Text, p. 94 = In our active addiction, fear of the future and what might happen was a reality for many of us...	Dave R	2	444	Apr 29, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 27 Recognizing and releasing resentments (Preview) We want to look our past in the face, see it for what it really was, and release it so we can live today. Basic Text, p. 29 = Many of us had trouble identifying our resentments when we were new in recovery. There we sat with our Fourth Step in front of us, thinking and thinking, finally deciding that we jus...	Dave R	1	335	Apr 27, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	April 26 Self-acceptance (Preview) The most effective means of achieving self-acceptance is through applying the Twelve Steps of recovery. IP No. 19, Self-Acceptance = Most of us came to Narcotics Anonymous without much self-acceptance. We looked at the havoc we had wreaked in our active addiction, and we loathed ourselves....	Dave R	1	374	Apr 27, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	Why so many AA haters in NA meetings?? (Preview) I feel sad when people bag on AA in meetings or say "the other fellowship" I mean c'mon you can't even say the name of our founders? I love AA and am proud of it. I go to AA meetings sometimes but most of my exposure to it is from the Big Book. I participated in a BB study and it was amazing. I could not...	alyqat4	21	6790	Apr 24, 2014 by kameakoli
	JFT April 24 Twelve Step of life (Preview) Through abstinence and through working the Twelve Steps of Narcotics Anonymous, our lives have become useful. Basic Text, p. 8 = Before coming to Narcotics Anonymous, our lives were centered around using. For the most part, we had very little energy left over for jobs, relationships, or other a...	Dave R	0	351	Apr 24, 2014 by Dave R
	JFT April 23 A God of our understanding (Preview) Many of us understand God to be simply whatever force keeps us clean. Basic Text, p. 25 = Some of us enter recovery with a working understanding of a Higher Power. For a lot of us, however, God is a troublesome word. We may doubt the existence of any sort of Power greater than ourselves. Or we may re...	Dave R	1	387	Apr 23, 2014 by mikah
	JFT April 22 Traveling the open road (Preview) This is our road to spiritual growth. Basic Text, p. 37 = When we arrived at our first NA meeting, it looked like the end of the road to many of us. We werent going to be able to use anymore. We were spiritually bankrupt. Most of us were totally isolated and didnt think we had much to live for. Little di...	Dave R	1	386	Apr 22, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 21 Fear (Preview) We have found that we had no choice except to completely change our old ways of thinking or go back to using. Basic Text, p. 22 = Many of us find that our old ways of thinking were dominated by fear. We were afraid that we wouldnt be able to get our drugs or that there wouldnt be enough. We feared discover...	Dave R	2	456	Apr 22, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	Honest Prayer ( Just for Today) (Preview) "Although honesty is difficult to practice, it is most rewarding." Basic Text, page 92 How difficult we find it to be honest! Many of us come to NA so confused about what really happened in our lives that it sometimes takes months and years to sort it all out. The truth of our history is not alw...	BigV	1	1773	Apr 22, 2014 by sally b
	JFT April 20 Detachment (Preview) Addiction is a family disease, but we could only change ourselves. = Many of us come from severely damaged families. At times, the insanity that reigns among our relatives feels overwhelming. Sometimes we feel like packing our bags and moving far, far away. We pray that our family members will...	Dave R	2	406	Apr 21, 2014 by NG
	New to the board (Preview) Hello, I am just over 100 day's abstinent from opiates. I was a regular user for 8 years, I am now 26 years old and feel like a frightened new born abandoned by it's mother and left to fend for itself. I don't know how to operate or function sober, it's like somebody else entirely has had control of the whee...	murphkr	9	455	Apr 21, 2014 by NG
	Dealing with gossip (Preview) Can anyone please help me by sharing their experience of malicious gossip in the fellowship. -- Edited by Little Mermaid on Monday 14th of April 2014 12:34:55 PM	Little Mermaid	6	418	Apr 21, 2014 by NG
	JFT People-pleasing (Preview) ...approval-seeking behavior carried us further into our addiction.... Basic Text, p. 14 = When others approve of what we do or say, we feel good; when they disapprove, we feel bad. Their opinions of us, and how those opinions make us feel, can have positive value. By making us feel good about ste...	Dave R	2	383	Apr 21, 2014 by NG
	JFT April 19 Footwork (Preview) So many times, addicts have sought the rewards of hard work without the labor. Basic Text, p. 34 = When we first came to NA, some of us wanted everything, and right away. We wanted the serenity, the cars, the happy relationships, the friends, the closeness with our sponsorall the things other peopl...	Dave R	3	422	Apr 20, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 18 "I understand" (Preview) We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. Step Seven = Once we are entirely ready to have our character defects removed, many of us are entirely ready! Ironically, thats when the trouble really starts. The more we struggle to rid ourselves of a particular defect, the stronger that short...	Dave R	1	352	Apr 18, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 17 Priority: meetings (Preview) I initially felt that it would be impossible to attend more than one or two meetings a week. It just wouldnt fit in with my busy schedule. I later learned that my priorities were [180] degrees reversed. It was the everything else that would have to fit into my meeting schedule. = Some of us attended m...	Dave R	1	350	Apr 18, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 16 "Acting as if" (Preview) April 16 Acting as if Today, we seek solutions, not problems. We try what we have learned on an experimental basis. Basic Text, p. 58 = The first time we heard that we should act as if, many of us exclaimed, But thats not honest! I thought we were always supposed to be honest about our feelings in Narcoti...	Dave R	0	435	Apr 16, 2014 by Dave R
	JFT April 15 Keep coming back (Preview) We have come to enjoy living clean and want more of the good things that the NA Fellowship holds for us. Basic Text, p. 27 = Can you remember a time when you looked at the addicts recovering in NA and wondered, If they arent using drugs, what on earth do they have to laugh about? Did you believe that the fu...	Dave R	1	350	Apr 15, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 14 A new vision (Preview) Do we really want to be rid of our resentments, our anger, our fear? Basic Text, p. 34 = Why do we call them shortcomings? Perhaps they should be called long-goings, because thats often what it takes for them to fade from our lives. Some of us feel that our shortcomings are the very characteristics...	Dave R	1	286	Apr 14, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	Relapsed (Preview) Yesterday I would have been out of rehab for a week and I already relapsed. I informed my hubby and though disappointed he was glad I at least was honest. I gave him my meds to take as I really don't trust myself as much as I hate to admit it. But even worse is the depression that has been worsening each day sin...	LWin	5	340	Apr 12, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 11 A closed mind (Preview) A new idea cannot be grafted onto a closed mind.... Open-mindedness leads us to the very insights that have eluded us during our lives. Basic Text, p. 96 = We arrived in NA at the lowest point in our lives. Wed just about run out of ideas. What we needed most when we got here were new ideas, new ways of l...	Dave R	1	354	Apr 12, 2014 by cdbuckberry
	JFT April 12 The big picture (Preview) All spiritual awakenings have some things in common. Common elements include an end to loneliness and a sense of direction in our lives. Basic Text, p. 50 = Some kinds of spiritual experiences take place when we confront something larger than we are. We suspect that forces beyond our understan...	Dave R	1	372	Apr 12, 2014 by mikah
	New Here (Preview) I am new here. Could someone explain what this site is about? And would someone please talk to me? Victory	Victory	7	430	Apr 12, 2014 by Victory
	JFT April 10 Too busy (Preview) We must use what we learn or we will lose it, no matter how long we have been clean. Basic Text, p. 85 = After putting some clean time together, some of us have a tendency to forget what our most important priority is. Once a week or less we say, Ive gotta get to a meeting tonight. Its been... Weve been ca...	Dave R	2	309	Apr 12, 2014 by mikah
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