We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
Step Nine
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In every relationship, we dont always handle things the way we would have hoped. But friendships dont have to end when we make mistakes; instead, we can make amends. If we are sincerely willing to accept the responsibilities involved in friendship and make the amends we owe, those friendships can become stronger and richer than ever.
Making amends is simple. We approach the person we have harmed and say, I was wrong. Sometimes we avoid getting to the point, evading an admission of our own part in the affair. But that frustrates the intent of the Ninth Step. To make effective amends, we have to keep it simple: we admit our part, and leave it at that.
There will be times when our friends wont accept our amends. Perhaps they need time to process what has happened. If that is the case, we must give them that time. After all, we were the ones in the wrong, not them. We have done our part; the rest is out of our hands.
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Just for today: I want to be a responsible friend. I will strive to keep it simple when making amends.
I know in making my amends to those I may have harmed it can help but sometimes it brings up old wounds . I had to ask my sponsor to help me sort through the amends that I did. Some people don't want to hear I'm sorry of paying money back they don't want it .I have tried to make myself a better person by making amends and to keep it simple .
