We can't keep what we have if we don't give it away! (newcomers help ME stay clean!)
Grab someone and jump in their back pocket. (preferrably someone with some quality recovery - - the winners as we so often call them) For this addict, I have found that there REALLY are people who don't mind me being in their back pocket and I have to stay there awhile sometimes.
My sponsor told me to stay out of the playground in my mind because it is dangerous and supervision is required. (she even threatened to take away the swings, slides, and everything if I didn't stay out of there) For me, this meant - quit trying to talk myself into going back out there! I learned the hard way that I had to talk to my sponsor and others in recovery because my best thinking earned me my seat in NA.
Put the bat down, stop beating yourself up. Give yourself a break.
Don't pick up any dope, pick up the telephone instead.
So true, adriana. First drug doest the damage. As long as we stay away from our first drug... our sick mind cannot decieve us... The trouble starts only when we give in, and having started with the first drug, it becomes a humongous task to stop again...
There is this saying, "If you don't pick it up, you won't get high... if you don't see it, you won't pick it up... if you don't go where it's at, you won't see it... if you go somewhere else you won't go there... so go to a meeting."
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
· "Forget 'Keep Coming Back' and just stay with us."
· "Just because you're having a bad day doesn't mean you're having a bad life."
· "Do not allow others to upset you; their only power comes from your reaction."
· "Do not rent space in your head to other people's sicknesses."
· "The definition of faith is believing what you cannot see. The reward of faith is seeing what you believe."
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
· "If we stay clean JUST FOR TODAY...we will never relapse...because...EVERYDAY IS TODAY."
· "What I used to call boredom, I now call serenity."
· "Dear God, I understand No, I understand Yes, I don't understand WAIT."
· "I was really crazy, definitely missing something upstairs; I was 12 steps from a program that is for sure!"
· "I went to the first meeting and didn't know what they were talking about; the only bit I could understand was when they said keep coming back. So I did that. "
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
· Why I go to meetings: "It is difficult to solve a problem with the same mind that created it."
· "If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got!"
· "With one leg in yesterday, and one leg in tomorrow, you’re pissing on today."
· "God's will is to be of maximum service to others without regard of cost to self. Self will is to be of maximum service to self without regard of cost to others."
· "Life’s life. Life ain’t half bad, if you don’t fight life."
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
· "We addicts have a problem with commitment, consistency, and follow-through."
· "Addicts don't have relationships, we take hostages!"
· "After returning home from a business meeting I found myself with a huge resentment for a fellow at the meeting that was really bugging me. I immediately called my sponsor to "complain". My Sponsor stopped me mid scream and said, "do you have a mirror?" Of course, I said "Yes, in the bathroom." My sponsor then instructed me to hang up the phone, go into the bathroom, turn on the light, look in the mirror and you will find the S.O.B that is bugging you."
· "When I say NO to you, I'm saying YES to me."
· "You can't experience victory if you refuse to surrender."
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.