Working with others is only the beginning of service work.
Basic Text, p. 59
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Service work calls for a selfless devotion to carrying the message to the still-suffering addict. But our attitude of service cannot stop there. Service also requires that we look at ourselves and our motives. Our efforts at service make us highly visible to the fellowship. In NA, it is easy to become a big fish in a little pond. Our controlling attitude can easily drive away the newcomer.
Group conscience is one of the most important principles in service. It is vital to remember that the group conscience is what counts, not just our individual beliefs and desires. We lend our thoughts and beliefs to the development of a group conscience. Then when that conscience arises, we accept its guidance. The key is working with others, not against them. If we remember that we strive together to develop a collective conscience, we will see that all sides have equal merit. When all the discussions are over, all sides will come back together to carry a unified message.
It is often tempting to think that we know what is best for the group. If we remember that it doesnt matter if we get our way, then it is easier to allow service to be the vehicle it is intended to bea way to carry the message to the addict who still suffers.
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Just for today: I will take part in the development of group conscience. I will remember that the world wont end just because I dont get my way. I will think about our primary purpose in all my service efforts. I will reach out to a newcomer.
Group consience is part of what makes this a "we" raather than "I" program. It is important for me to go along with the group conscience, even when I don't agree with it. Unfortunately, we have had some problems with members who did not go along with our home goup's group conscience. The results have been detrimental to group unity.
Yes we also see the "we do not govern' sometimes get sidetracked especially in business meetings.personal recovery depends on NA unity.we have been fortunate to be able to address trying situations in a loving and carring manner that usually leads to a better unity in our group even though sometimes it wants a to shift to a monarchy instead of a realm of service!!! If it ain't spiritual ,it ain't practical,,,,that does really say something huh ........
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
