God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Serenity Prayer
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Recovery involves change, and change means doing things differently. The problem is, many of us resist doing things differently; what were doing may not be working, but at least were familiar with it. It takes courage to step out into the unknown. How do we find that courage?
We can look around ourselves at NA meetings. There, we see others whove found they needed to change what they were doing and whove done so successfully. Not only does that help quiet our fear that changeany changespells disaster, it also gives us the benefit of their experience with what does work, experience we can use in changing what doesnt.
We can also look at our own recovery experience. Even if that experience, so far, has been limited to stopping the use of drugs, still we have made many changes in our liveschanges for the good. Whatever aspects of our lives we have applied the steps to, we have always found surrender better than denial, recovery superior to addiction.
Our own experience and the experience of others in NA tells us that changing the things I can is a big part of what recovery is all about. The steps and the power to practice them give us the direction and courage we need to change. We have nothing to fear.
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Just for today: I welcome change. With the help of my Higher Power, I will find the courage to change the things I can.
Getting and staying clean involves major changes. I need to change my playmates, playgrounds, and playthings, as well as my attitudes and ideas. This is a major undertaking, but fortunately I don't have to do it all at once. I need to focus on what I can change today.
Yes I am usually able to accept the things I can't change,and I always am seeking the wisdom to know the difference,but at times even when I know the thing to do I balk and try to follow my will,remain in fear or just too stubborn..I ask my Higher Power to continue to allow me the courage to move forward each day!!!
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
