My wife tells me while ago ,that my sons girlfriend who attends same intensive care program as him,now staying at our crib for a couple days cause she was let go from a volutary half way house was also thrown out of same program for non-compliance taking her meds(seraquil/paxil etc).So here comes the acceleration in my brain, says I ,"she's not staying in our house when were not there,she needs to be out by weekend,Eric's going to take a fall because contact to close for program stipulations, all valid you know BUT,by Immediately asking my HP for serenity and trusting in my 3rd step "whole heartedly' the peace we talk about engulfed me.It will get worked out,without a raving lunatic solving all the problems..Ilove this process ,even after so many years YOU GOT TO DO THE WORK>>life on lifes terms gonna keep popping!,;JUST FOR TODAY' we'll be in the solution and work on the problem...
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Hey Don thanks for kind words,but I still struggle soo much..think its that human thing!!!:) It really is amazing though as I continually practise ,the sooner I can find peace..Too many years of "be the lone solver!!,got me where it did........I finally accepted the help and run for it quickly! Talk to you later........
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Sorry buddy....I would go with your first gut reaction!!!! I guess my 2-cents worth is just "be careful"...a lot is on the line here for all concerned...and all concerned includes you and your wife. Be a saint if you will, but don't be a sucker!
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Hey Lee ,thanks for keeping it real,saint I am definitely not,but also am glad I took a step back to let situation evolve.Looks like megan is moving in with her sister very shortly and she is shifting to A lexington center for recovery program.My wife is actually fine with her being here for a short period and was part of establishing boundaries for sleeping arrangements,input for household rules for smoking,cleaning up etc.I appreciate your input and will remain"aware"as not to be played!!I will trust in my process and continue to support and not enable,a thin line.Good hearing from ya..peace
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How did it all turn out - What i am noticing about HP - that he sure works stuff out the way it is suppose to be - regardless if a lunatic is present (lol) just takes a little longer- I am glad that you are trusting the process - and listening to your HP
