I met this woman 5 1/2 years ago .She introduced me to NA . My life has not been the same sence. The problem is that we are breaking up this is so hard. I know that this is something that must be done however it doesn't make it any easier.
No doubt about it it is hard to do but sometimes neccessary for growth and moving onto something and or someone who is better suited for you and them, don't fight it , the less you fight it and hang on the faster you'll get past it.
Crystal, welcome home to Miracles In Progress. I know you are going thru a hard time. It's never easy to lose a relationship with a loved one. Been there too. Thanks for sharing your pain with us.
Hugs - Tahir.
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
You did the right thing by asking for help. No one can tell you how to grieve and your grieving process will take as long as it takes, but there are tools in NA to help you through this process and cope in the meantime. Steps 1-3 will help you on a day to day basis, as well as the Serenity Prayer, to gradually have the pain lifted. Also, join us on the chat room. It is a good group of people and can be one more asset in your efforts to heal.
