I am so complacent,so I thought I would turn it up a notch,and check out your website,I loked it so I became a member,I love Recovery,and I am frightened by this complacency I feel inside.please pray for me thanks,Tegan null
Hi Tegan and welcom to MIP, glad you found us. I get complacent at times too I find this site helps with that . It dosnt take much effort to sit in front of my computer and read some posts and it's always good recovery stuff here so I hope it helps you like it helps me. Keep coming back! Sandra
Hi tagan , welcome to MIP!!!! i'm so glad you desided to post. i hope you find this site as inlightening as i've found it. the people here are wonderful and i always take something away with me after visiting here/
i fall into complacancy whenever i get depressed , or is it the other way around???
but what ever the reason is , it teaches me to keep my guard up and only proves i haven't reach prefection yet ..lol ..go figure...
hope to hear from you again , we need people like you to share your hope faith and courage. see you on the flip side ......hugs peggy
Hi Tegan, welcome to Miracles In Progress. Glad we have you here with us.
I have found that falling back to simple basics of the NA program like making meetings, reading literature, starting the day with a Prayer, reaching out to at least one another recovering addict in NA, either f2f or over the phone or online has helped me get back to the spiritual condition where my perspective of where I am and where I could go remains real...
Keep sharing with us. We need you.
PEGGY!!! SO GLAD TO READ THOSE FAMILIAR WARM POSTS FULL OF HOPE AGAIN!!!
WELCOME BACK
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
As we recover, we do tend to replace our 'Vigilance' with 'Complacentcy'. It's ok IMO for a little while but only for a little while. I find it nice to be able to live life on life's terms without constantly reminding myself of my addiction and NA, but in the end after all is said and done, here is where I still end up. We must always be aware of our disease and give it the constant treatment it needs to stay arrested.
I know where you are coming from. I go in and out of what I call complacency. I try to tell myself I am busy, but the fact of the matter is that I just get too comfortable in my house. My sponsor wants me to do at least 3 meetings a week. I have been doing that, but am not willing to attend more. She suggested a 90/90 I said, No!!!!
I am realizing that you get out of it what you put in it. I have been around a little while and sometimes my sick mind tells me that I do not have to do what newcomers do. I have a network and sponosr who tell me when I am full of shit, This would be one of thoses times.