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Step one working it seems im in some sort of way its all i want is to get to step 4 yet step one keeps me in it.?
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Whats a girl to do when every thing in step one the compulsive behavior ,manifestation ect... keeps me stuck right there how do i get it out on paper when im just what is speeks of UGH!
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JFT January 21 Unity and uniformity
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"Unity is a must in Narcotics Anonymous."Basic Text, p. 63=Unity is not uniformity. Unity springs from the fact that we have unity of purpose--to recover, and to help others stay clean. Even so, we often find that while we strive to fulfill the same purpose, our means and methods may be radically di...
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JFT January 18 The simple inventory
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"Continuing to take a personal inventory means that we form a habit of looking at ourselves, our actions, our attitudes, and our relationships on a regular basis."Basic Text, p. 42=The daily inventory is a tool we can use to simplify our lives. The most complicated part of taking a regular inventor...
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JFT January 17 Forgivenss
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"As we realize our need to be forgiven, we tend to be more forgiving. At least we know that we are no longer intentionally making life miserable for people."Basic Text, pp. 39-40=In our addiction we often treated others badly, sometimes deliberately finding ways to make their lives miserable. In...
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JOHN
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Good morning and blessings of this day..It has come to my attention the ownwer(director)John F has posted a message pertinent to his present Conditon.If you would like to sign in to the sister site here at AA MESSAGE board ,you can review John's share.Have a blessed and productive day
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JFT January 3 Our greatest need
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"We eventually redefine our beliefs and understanding to the point where we see that our greatest need is for knowledge of Gods will for us and the strength to carry that out."Basic Text, p. 48=When we first arrived in NA, we had all kinds of ideas of what we needed. Some of us set our sights on amassing p...
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New At Online Chatting
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Not sure how theses chats work ... I didn't notice recent comments ... or who is on line ... (?)
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I don't think i'm a addict.
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i just went through rehab for my first time for heroin. i was using for 2 years but never used a needle. i was in for my first one for 28 days and then got kicked out and sent down to a florida rehab and was there for 30 days. i then intentionally relapsed to prove the point that i shouldn't be in florida and it wa...
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JFT January 2 Take a deep breath and talk to God
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"Sometimes when we pray, a remarkable thing happens: We find the means, ways, and energies to perform tasks far beyond our capacities."Basic Text, p. 46=Coping successfully with life's minor annoyances and frustrations is sometimes the most difficult skill we have to learn in recovery. We are...
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Online sponsor
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I am looking for an online sponsor. If anyone can help me please email me. I haven't been able to find one in my town. julesahorness@gmail.com Thanks!!!
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JFT January 1 Vigilance
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"We keep what we have only with vigilance..."Basic Text, p. 60=How do we remain vigilant about our recovery? First, by realizing that we have a disease we will always have. No matter how long we've been clean, no matter how much better our lives have become, no matter what the extent of our spiritua...
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Desperate
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Permalink Reply Quote More Edit PostDelete PostPrinter Friendly Hi, my name is Beverly and I am a hopeless and at the moment feel helpless addict/alcoholic.. I am also jobless, depressed and haunted by who Ive become. There is not a soul on this planet who 'knows' me. Ive always felt I didn't...
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JFT December 29 Through each others' eyes
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"When someone points out a shortcoming, our first reaction may be defensive...[But] if we truly want to be free, we will take a good look at input from fellow addicts."Basic Text, p. 36=At some point in our recovery, we come to the awkward realization that the way we see ourselves is not necessarily th...
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JFT December 28 Depression
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"We are no longer fighting fear, anger, guilt, self-pity, or depression."Basic Text, p. 27=As addicts, many of us experience depression from time to time. When we feel depressed, we may be tempted to isolate ourselves. However, if we do this, our depression may turn to despair. We can't afford t...
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I thank you for being in my recovery.
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Dear fellow recovering people in Miracles In Progress: My name is Raman and I am an addict. I wish to share that on the 21 st of December, I completed 29 years of continous clean time. Staying clean and serene on a daily basis has been possible because of the 12 Step Program of Narcotics Anonymous. I al...
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JFT December 27 God could restore us to sanity
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"The process of coming to believe restores us to sanity. The strength to move into action comes from this belief."Basic Text, p. 25=Now that we've finally admitted our insanity and seen examples of it in all its manifestations, we might be tempted to believe that we are doomed to repeat this behavio...
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My partner is in recovery, am after some advice
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First I apologise if I'm in the wrong place but Im new and Im after some advice please.
my partner is 6months into his recovery. Things were really bad between us before because of his addiction and he did some awful things to me. As i said he is nearly 6 months clean and is 2 days from picking up his key rin...
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JFT December 19 Walking the way we talk
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"Words mean nothing until we put them into action."Basic Text, p. 58=The Twelfth Step reminds us "to practice these principles in all our affairs." In NA, we see living examples of this suggestion all around us. The more experienced members, who seem to have an aura of peace surrounding them, demo...
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JFT December 18 The message of our meetings
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"The fact that we, each and every group, focus on carrying the message provides consistency; addicts can count on us."Basic Text, p. 68=Tales of our antics in active addiction may be funny. Stories of our old bizarre reactions to life when using may be interesting. But they tend to carry the mess mo...
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32 years of uninterrupted freedom from active addiction
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It was a very cold December 2nd morning in 1984 as I "came to" from another drug induced evening.I was 6 months into my 3rd marriage and the more than two and a half decades of active drug addiction was devastating my life and everything and everyone in its path.I lifted my head from the floor and swore,f...
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JFT December 14 Addiction, drugs, and recovery
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"Addiction is a physical, mental, and spiritual disease that affects every area of our lives."Basic Text, p. 20=Before we started using, most of us had a stereotype, a mental image of what addicts were supposed to look like. Some of us pictured a junkie robbing convenience markets for drug money. ...
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Amends if you were a dealer
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Hi, I'm on my 8/9 step and I was wondering what your opinion is on making amends in the situation you had dealt in the past. I was asked by my sponsor to inquire so I'm curious as to the feedback. Thanks!
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JFT December 12 Fear of change
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"By working the steps, we come to accept a Higher Power's will...We lose our fear of the unknown. We are set free."Basic Text, p. 16=Life is a series of changes, both large and small. Although we may know and accept this fact intellectually, chances are that our initial emotional reaction to change i...
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Principals of NA -
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anybody know where to find the actual NA spiritual principles listed by approved NA literature?
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JFT December 11 Misery is optional
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"No one is forcing us to give up our misery."Basic Text, p. 29=It's funny to remember how reluctant we once were to surrender to recovery. We seemed to think we had wonderful, fulfilling lives as using addicts and that giving up our drugs would be worse than serving a life sentence at hard labor. In re...
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JFT December 10 Winners
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"I started to imitate some of the things the winners were doing. I got caught up in NA. I felt good..."Basic Text, p. 153=We often hear it said in meetings that we should "stick with the winners." Who are the winners in Narcotics Anonymous? Winners are easily identified. They work an active progr...
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JFT December 9 Listening
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"This ability to listen is a gift and grows as we grow spiritually. Life takes on a new meaning when we open ourselves to this gift."Basic Text, p. 107=Have you ever watched two small children carry on a conversation? One will be talking about purple dragons while the other carries on about the dis...
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JFT December 6 Romance and recovery
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"Relationships can be a terribly painful area."Basic Text, p. 82=Love is like an elixir for some of us. The excitement of a new lover, the intrigue of exploring intimacy, the sense of release we get from allowing ourselves to become vulnerable--these are all powerful emotions. But we can't forge...
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JFT Those who want to recover
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"We have seen the program work for any addict who honestly and sincerely wants to stop [using drugs]."Basic Text, p. 10=How do we know when someone honestly and sincerely wants to stop using drugs? The truth is that we don't know! Because we cannot read minds or know another's motives and desires,...
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JFY December 5 God's will not ours
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"We know that if we pray for Gods will we will receive what is best for us, regardless of what we think."Basic Text, p. 46=By the time we came to NA, our inner voices had become unreliable and self-destructive. Addiction had warped our desires, our interests, our sense of what was best for ourselves. ...
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