hi there 41 days clean just coming to the site I tryed I have not been well or my self lately I try to harm my self on Oct 25th and lived thorugh it this will be my frist time sharing about this all I can say is it feels good to be back!
There is no problem or hardship or adversity that harming ourselves can't make worse...
It's ok to feel angry, depressed, frustrated, scared, sad, anxious or numb... Let it be... I have self-injured myself many a times, over the years, since my teens...
Today, I realize that I can use the 12 Steps of NA to overcome those urges too, accept my thoughts, feelings and emotions as they are, dive deeper into myself, find ways to address these states of mind, learn to cope with them in the light of the Steps... and change... The 12 Steps are the solution... not using or cutting or any other obsessive-compulsive behavior... these are only the extensions of our addiction when we stop using and stay clean...
Just For Today, we don't have to use (or self-injure), no matter what, come hell or high water...
Keep Coming Back... Better yet, stay with us... Missed you...
Hugs, Love, Light ~ Tahir.
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
There is no problem or hardship or adversity that harming ourselves can't make worse...
It's ok to feel angry, depressed, frustrated, scared, sad, anxious or numb... Let it be... I have self-injured myself many a times, over the years, since my teens...
Today, I realize that I can use the 12 Steps of NA to overcome those urges too, accept my thoughts, feelings and emotions as they are, dive deeper into myself, find ways to address these states of mind, learn to cope with them in the light of the Steps... and change... The 12 Steps are the solution... not using or cutting or any other obsessive-compulsive behavior... these are only the extensions of our addiction when we stop using and stay clean...
Just For Today, we don't have to use (or self-injure), no matter what, come hell or high water...
Keep Coming Back... Better yet, stay with us... Missed you...
Hugs, Love, Light ~ Tahir. hi there Tahir nice to meet you it was so nice of you to send me a message like that thankyou I love you to xox
You're welcome Sheryl. Glad we have you here with us, truly, another miracle in progress...
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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting."Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.