Hey everyone! Little back ground on whats going on. I have almost 4 years clean and sober. For the first 3ish years of my recovery I stayed with the mother of my child who also got clean. My daughter got adopted by my mom but I stayed with her mother hoping things would work out. After 3 years and a lot of work on my self I came to realize I that drugs were the only thing we had in common and I havent been I love with her for a long time, so we decided to go our separate ways. Now that Ive been single and worked on my self while being by my self Im ready to start dating. Is it better to date someone in recovery or a normie? I went on a date and was honest about what I need to do to take care of my self and everything went get her only concern was my addiction because shes familiar with it. How would you handle this situation?