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Post Info TOPIC: JFT September 23 Dealing with gossip


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JFT September 23 Dealing with gossip


 

 

In accordance with the principles of recovery, we try not to judge, stereotype, or moralize with each other.

Basic Text, p. 11

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Lets face it:  In Narcotics Anonymous, we live in a glass house of sorts.  Our fellow members know more about our personal lives than anyone has ever known before.  They know who we spend our time with, where we work, what step were on, how many children we have, and so forth.  And what our fellow members dont know, they will probably imagine.

We may be unhappy when others gossip about us.  But if we withdraw from the fellowship and isolate ourselves to avoid gossip, we also rob ourselves of the love, friendship, and unparalleled experience with recovery that our fellow members have to offer.  A better way to deal with gossip is to simply accept the way things are and the way we are, and live our lives according to principles.  The more secure we become with our personal program, the decisions we make, and the guidance we receive from a loving God, the less the opinions of others will concern us.

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Just for today:  I am committed to being involved in the NA Fellowship.  The opinions of others will not affect my commitment to recovery.

 



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I do not let others opinions bother me , if they judge you , they are probably seeing there own character defects coming out .I keep involved in the NA Fellowship , that's all that matters to me .

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