One of the first things that happens to many of us in recovery is that we start to look better. We get healthier; we bathe; we dress more appropriately. And without the goading of active addiction, many of us finally stop stealing, lying, and hustling. We start to look normaljust by removing the drugs.
Looking normal is very different from being normal. Acceptability in the eyes of the world is a benefit of recovery; it is not the same thing as recovery. We can enjoy the benefits of recovery, but we must take care to nurture their true source. Lasting recovery isnt found in acceptance from others, but in the inner growth set in motion by the Twelve Steps.
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Just for today: I know that looking good isnt enough. Lasting recovery is an inside job.
We all could make an image of being socially accepted in addiction , putting up a fake image . But in recovery if we fake it were only fooling ourselves , and a lot of other addicts see right through us .
