They can be analyzed, counseled, reasoned with, prayed over, threatened, beaten, or locked up, but they will not stop until they want to stop.
Basic Text, p. 65
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Perhaps one of the most difficult truths we must face in our recovery is that we are as powerless over anothers addiction as we are over our own. We may think that because weve had a spiritual awakening in our own lives we should be able to persuade another addict to find recovery. But there are limits to what we can do to help another addict.
We cannot force them to stop using. We cannot give them the results of the steps or grow for them. We cannot take away their loneliness or their pain. There is nothing we can say to convince a scared addict to surrender the familiar misery of addiction for the frightening uncertainty of recovery. We cannot jump inside other peoples skins, shift their goals, or decide for them what is best for them.
However, if we refuse to try to exert this power over anothers addiction, we may help them. They may grow if we allow them to face reality, painful though it may be. They may become more productive, by their own definition, as long as we dont try and do it for them. They can become the authority on their own lives, provided we are only authorities on our own. If we can accept all this, we can become what we were meant to becarriers of the message, not the addict.
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Just for today: I will accept that I am powerless not only over my own addiction but also over everyone elses. I will carry the message, not the addict.
I am responsible for my Journey in Recovery no one elses. I follow in the footsteps of those of who have gone before me as others may choose or choose not to follow mine. They are responsible for their choices, actions and inactions as I am responsible for mine.
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Work the Steps or Die MF. (My Friend :) Clean One Day At a Time by The Grace of God through The Power of NA
