You will be accepted and supported, not judged here and at NA meetings. My suggestion:
Go to lots of NA meeting (90 meetings in 90 days is recommended for newcomers).
Find an NA meeting that you like to go to on a regular basis and feel a part of. (Also known as a home group).
Find someone you can talk to and who can help you work the steps (Also known as a sponsor).
Get some phone numbers of other recovering addicts and hang out with them outside of meetings.
Don't hang out with your old using buddies. They will just get your stoned or drunk again.
Don't use no matter what.
awesome. i'm scared to go in person. do they have meetings here on the forum ? i will have to check out things locally.
MIKEF wrote:
Welcome to MIP
I am an addict named Mike.No judgement up in here, WE are addicts and can identify with using drugs...It is great that you are reaching out.WE always suggest the same,put down the drug,the beginning of healing and then go to work.Make meetings,listen for a sponsor,get into our solution"THE STEPS' worked with a sponsor and keep coming back.In support and prayer....
thanks so much. how do i find a sponsor?
-- Edited by mockingjay on Friday 19th of October 2012 12:16:47 PM
I am an addict named Mike.No judgement up in here, WE are addicts and can identify with using drugs...It is great that you are reaching out.WE always suggest the same,put down the drug,the beginning of healing and then go to work.Make meetings,listen for a sponsor,get into our solution"THE STEPS' worked with a sponsor and keep coming back.In support and prayer....
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
www.na.org you can read about Sponsorship here and also other helpful literature to gove you idea about program...Meetings best place to listen for a sponsor....Hope to hear more from you....
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
Welcome to be here,you won't be judged here,were all addicts here for the same reason,to get recovery and help each other.Being that you're pregnant it is good you want to stop the marijuana.I used for 39 years ,in the end the pot was the hardest to let go of.It worked ,I'll have 8 years clean on 1/10/13.
I was scared to go in person too, but things turned out great. You will find people in the rooms of NA who accept you and understand and can support you. Online forums and chat rooms are helpful but they are not the same as person-to-person meetings.
Hi Mockingjay! I'm Allie- Have you found a meeting in your area yet? We are all the same; here, there....Courage is about being afraid to do something but doing it anyway. We all have fears but as soon as we face them they die. :)You have nothing to be ashamed of.