When someone points out a shortcoming, our first reaction may be defensive. There will always be room for growth.
Basic Text, p. 36
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Recovery is a process that brings about change in our lives. We need that change if we are to continue our growth toward freedom. Its important that we remain open-minded when others point out our shortcomings, for they are bringing to light opportunities for us to change and grow. Reacting defensively limits our ability to receive the help they are offering us; letting go of our defenses opens the door to change, growth, and new freedom.
Each day in the recovery process will bring an opportunity for further change and growth. The more we learn to greet change with an open mind and heart, the more we will grow and the more comfortable we will become with our recovery.
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Just for today: I will greet each opportunity for growth with an open mind.
I have learned to accept criticism and tough love when it is givin in a loving compassionate way. There's a couple of oldtimers (husband & wife) who feel the need to make digs and throw spears at people, in the name of "Recovery" as they're sharing their message, which usually has nothing to do with experience, strength & hope. When I came into the rooms of Narcotics Anonymous, I was already beat up, shot down and feeling like crap..I, as I'm sure many others, didn't come into recovery to receive the same treatment. I will continue to pray for them.
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Carrying the message of hope and freedom from active addiction to the addict who still suffers.
