A lot of our chief concerns and major difficulties come from our inexperience with living without drugs. Often when we ask an oldtimer what to do, we are amazed at the simplicity of the answer.
Basic Text, p. 43
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Finding balance in recovery is quite a bit like sitting down with a set of scales and a pile of sand. The goal is to have an equal amount of sand on each side of the scales, achieving a balance of weight.
We do the same thing in recovery. We sit down with the foundation of our clean time and the Twelve Steps, then attempt to add employment, household responsibilities, friends, sponsees, relationships, meetings, and service in equal weights so that the scales balance. Our first try may throw our personal scales out of kilter. We may find that, because of our over-involvement in service, we have upset our employer or our family. But when we try to correct this problem by resigning from NA service altogether, the other side of the scales go out of balance.
We can ask for help from members who have stabilized their scales. These people are easy to recognize. They appear serene, composed, and self-assured. Theyll smile in recognition at our dilemma and share how they slowed down, added only a few grains of sand at a time to either side of the scales, and were rewarded with balance in recovery.
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Just for today: I seek balance in my life. Today, I will ask others to share their experience in finding that balance.
Balance is a essential for long-term recovery because I have other commitments besides NA. Though NA is still a major part of my life, and staying clean is my top priority, I also have to deal with work, family, service, etc. It will not be good for my recovery if I ignore my responsibilities to my wife and children for an NA service obligation. I have to find a way to balance both.
Today I am able to move back,pray and make better decisions instead of just jumping into a commitment and then feeling trapped and overwhelmed because im spread to thin!Balance for me has come with time and through prayer and meditiation I am better able to keep that balance....
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
