I try to help a feelow addict by moving them into my home now ppl are giving me hell about it some kinda he said she sais shit I am tooooooooooo old for all this drama I see 2 sides atm I can handle ppl in dosesbut a full time room mate was not the best thingi could have done it seems to feed the drama between others here where I live I spoke to a few ppl to get some advice on what to do I may end up back alone once afgain cause I cannot and will not allow drama in my life having this person here makes my nerves go crazy I feel like I am at a snapping point not really knowing the next best thing to do in this situation not that anyone can tell me what would be best for me atm but I gotta get some of this shit outta my head so I can finally have some peace and I don't think I can do the roomie deal it is adding to the stress fml i am not really depressed just stressed mom thinks i can go alone in this but me I worry bout it all!!!!!!!!!!!! What to do????????
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Hey Manon,,,,,,Your doing it,share your pain,work toward the solution,JUST DON'T USE,talk with someone working an honest program of recovery and keep coming back,,and please keep that smile thats on your avatar!!!!Seek whatever Higher Power works for you,its not about who or what this Power is ,but what this Power can do to help you move forward in recovery!!! Good seeing you,the sun will be out soon!!!!!!
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"what to do" you ask". You answered ur own question. havin that nu roomate wasnt working out for you and ur nerves. its a done deal. you tried. you cant do it. its ok.
its my experience that the best reason to take in a roomate is to help with the finanances. other wise, whats the point?
two recovering addicts under one roof would only work best when both have alot of clean time under their belts. who possess the tools it takes to deal with other people. we have triggers, maybe this one clicks ur triggers? not a healthy set up when roommate works ur last nerves to wear u wanna snap. this might lead you back to addiction. ask yourself: do you wish to risk this.
i would question my motives as to why i need a roomate. for company? for extra money? to help another out because im so nice? so many reasons. at end of day, one has to be able to go to bed, relaxed and safe. knowing nothing or no one is gonna mess up my sobriety, at least no under my roof. no freakin way sister! i wouldnt have it.
