yes my friend! sometimes we just got to back off, listen, see what were doing in the situation and remain teachable by paying attention.....Simple solutions for complicated people!!!
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
I am sick and tired, as of now, of trying to reason out things with people who want to complicate and argue even small things...
Seems my best bet in life (and in love) is to stick with the winners,,, other addicts who have found recovery in NA and are living the Program...
Normies are ok to do business with, to play sports with and maybe even learn or socialze with...
But forming deeper, trusting and loving relationships with them is not in order; Im findin that my life is pained and miserable when I try and become acceptable to these non-NA people...
I have to accept, at a very deep emotional level, that it just will not work..
Some get lucky with the normies; I know that many, even in this Forum who have deep and satisfying relationships with non-addicts....
I need to know that another addict will be less likely to judge, misunderstand and be complicated !!!!
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Raman an addict clean and serene just for today in NA Worldwide ; live to love and love to live the NA Way !!!