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Manon


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9d9_r7Wv8I&feature=related
that in mnay ways is where Ia m at
I have had bad things and I am in therapy attempting to change what I am capable of doing I was taught pain shared is pain lessoned I woke up in shambles and come to the one place I kinow Iam accepted as I earned my seat here as has every one who is being real with who they are I am bluntly honest just with a few problems  this is my support system that will not change
I am powerless over otherr ppl and it is none of my buisness what others think of me.
AllI can do is continue to do the next right thing thanx salvagable for the rea;ity check
love to my REAL family
I changed some hateful post due to the diversity it could casuse

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imikens


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One of the ways your reframe your past to move from victim to survior is you quit using your trauma to define yourself and as an excuse for asking for what you think you need.

Yes?

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Manon


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no I am addressing a new issue that has not been processed you would be amazed by my resilience but like I said I am not arguing with you if you don't like my shares don't read them
my SUGGESTION is if ya think I am trippin tie my shoes if you have a problem with me solve it can't stand me then sit down now facing me is as easy as turning around
so quick to be negative as Itry to find the positive from my life

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Manon


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or maybe you are just projecting imagine that!!!!!

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cdbuckberry


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Manon,Good girl ,stick up for your thoughts.You are the most important one ,

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missyh90


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When I came into recovery I had no voice....no voice at all.  My life had been nothing more then me saying what you wanted me to say so you did not leave.  I did not understand how much my past had molded me into a survior. 

I remember the process of me finding my voice.  I went through quite a long period of time learning how to use it appropiately and remain true to myself.  Oh...I caused so much damage durring that time but thank God people just loved me through it.  no

I had a sponser that taught me Mean what you say but don't be Mean when you say it.   

Today I continue to learn how to live instead of survive. 

Keep doing the next right thing and all will work out just the way it is supposed to. 

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