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Post Info TOPIC: I don't have to be right anymore.


Guru

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I don't have to be right anymore.


From the step working guide pg 23

"It seems that we are especially vulnerable to self will when things are going well.  We cross the fine line that divides humble and honest pursuit of goals from subtle manipulation and forced results.  We find ourselves going just a little too far in a discussion to convince someone that we are right.  We find ourselves holding onto something just a little too long."
Not having to be right anymore is one of the blessings of freedom that NA has given me.  I'm completely OK with being powerless to change your mind.


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Hey Don! Someone at our forum signs off with'YOUR OPINION OF ME IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS!!! love that........Yes I also have been woking diligently on "my need to be right thing",that endeavor only brings me to areas I need not visit. My life moves toward more peace and serenity when I continually reach for God and remain teachable!!smile

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Yes Don, if I can hold forth on an arguement without being aggressive, pushy or manipulative then Im ok, else I use natural wisdom and retreat.
 
Like someone said once
"Another victory like that and Im lost". 

Yes, we are right only when we are supposed to be.

-- Edited by Raman on Sunday 30th of May 2010 01:50:42 PM

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Raman an addict clean and serene just for today in NA Worldwide ; live to love and love to live the NA Way !!!


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I like what our literature says "When we admit our powerlessness, we do not have to argue our point of view."

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"If we do an honest examination of exactly what we are giving, we are better able to evaluate the results we are getting." Chapter 10 - Emotional Pain - NA Way of Life.
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