"Sharing with others keeps us from feeling isolated and alone."
Basic Text, p. 85
There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being lonely is a state of the heart, an emptiness that makes us feel sad and sometimes hopeless. Loneliness is not always alleviated when we enter into relationships or surround ourselves with others. Some of us are lonely even in a room full of people.
Many of us came to Narcotics Anonymous out of the desperate loneliness of our addiction. After coming to meetings, we begin to make new friends, and often our feelings of loneliness ease. But many of us must contend with loneliness throughout our recovery.
What is the cure for loneliness? The best cure is to begin a relationship with a Higher Power that can help fill the emptiness of our heart. We find that when we have a belief in a Higher Power, we never have to feel lonely. We can be alone more comfortably when we have a conscious contact with a God of our understanding.
We often find deep fulfillment in our interactions with others as we progress in our recovery. Yet we also find that, the closer we draw to our Higher Power, the less we need to surround ourselves with others. We begin to find a spirit within us that is our constant companion as we continue to explore and deepen our connection with a Power greater than ourselves. We realize we are spiritually connected with something bigger than we are.
Just for Today: I will take comfort in my conscious contact with a Higher Power. I am never alone.
I used to feel lonely in a room full of people. My higher power is with me always. There is always someone in the fellowship I can call. I am never alone. What a blessing.
I also am never alone through the grace of my HP,my support system plus I talk to myself!!!!!Its when I also answer myself my wife says exactly that"you'll never be alone.You see where I am blessed to work it is a common occurence, tell me God don't know where we belong :)
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Our purpose is to remain clean,just for today,and to carry the message of recovery.
