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Manon


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I have a man that loves me and I find myself not feeling the  same the last time I loved my world was torn in 2... I care about my fiance but don't think I am "in love" he is great to me and treats me so good and loves me for "all" of me and I find myself scared because I don't wanna get hurt again...so how do you trust your hp enough to let my feelings go back to norm without fear?

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avid


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If your fiance loves you and most importantly - He treats you well,
and if you care about him as you say........then y'know what?
that's good enough.
Stop trying to figure everything out.
No matter how much or how long you agonize over it, the outcome is not up to you.
You deserve whatever happiness this relationship can bring.

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MIKEF


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Manon! I love that opening part of post"I think there is something wrong with me!!Man do I remember saying that not only to myself but others!!!I actually still say that now and again and  you know what ,its TRUE!!! :) :)  Yes I agree ,some times we have to just go on faith and trust in our HP.Faith defined as "being sure of what we hoped for and certain of what we have not seen..We are people from "the war" and we'll always be a little shell shocked but you'll have to give this over to God and search your heart.Nobody says you need to get married or all that ,but a loving relationship certainly can't hurt.Just for Today" savor the love,lose the isolation and feel blessed not stressed,,.2 cents from the peanut gallery......see ya later.........smile

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cdbuckberry


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Manon,Avid is right , you have a real good man,hold on to him.

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Fiesty


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What an awesome question to ask yourself - See at one point we would ask no questions - just wander around clueless - What I have found the more I work the steps the clearer I get - In regards to relationship - It is an ever changing thing - I am no guru - but some days I just don't feel it and some days I do - Maybe a question to ask - Is this different? and if it is in a good way -may be worth walking it all the way out - so you have no regrets - So work a set of steps, talk to other addicts that are walking thru the same thing and gotten to the other side, go to meetings - Hope all turn out well

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