What I have learned is to trust the process - and that truly doesn't mean in trusting an individual - It just means thats the way it is - Especially if it falls under a higher authority - which could be a nudge from the judge, you may be in a half way house or treatment center or just doing the next thing. I have learned that if I trust exactly where I am at in my life - and not fight it -It always turn out good - Even when smack dab in full blown addiction - If it is acknowledge that I am pretty screwed up I am an addict - things will start to change - could be physically, emotionally or even spiritually - but a wonderful thing starts to happen in the midst of our turmoil - A person may continue to use -but an awakening starts to happen - Just amazing -