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need advice


was thinking about getting a certain tattoo but the one Iwant has signifigance in a realtionship that has seemed to go its course, not sure if Iam okay with that but Iguess that is where acceptance comes in and the rest of my world would do cart wheels I care alot about this person and visa versa but I am hanging out with a friend alot and don't think that tat would be appropriate given the cicumstances I love that heart with the peace in the middle with a few extra curves it is a beautiful sentiment but I think not so much appropriate as I am trying to move on and put the past behind me. but was thinking if it was just a plain heart with a peace sign in the middle if that would be ok because this symbol meant things to me b4 this one I speak of came along but the particualar one was shared between me and my doc...
So in trying to do  the next right thing what shouls I do???
Gramps counting on you here....

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I'm sure Mike will be along soon, but in the meantime here's my take.
Don't do it.
If the symbolism is mostly about a past relationship that has run it's course, I can't help but think it's something you will end up regretting.
Tattoos are forever.
ciao

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smile    Manon,I would get what ever tatoo you want,it is your body and you have to be happy with the artwork,it's there forever.The heart with a peace symbol sounds great but make sure that's what you want.Keep smiling and stay happy.  smile

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Manon I am afraid I have to agree w/ Avid on this one. Not about tatoo's in general but I definitely think you will end up regretting one that reminds you of a past relationship. Getting a tatoo is so much easier than having to have one removed. It's much more expensive, alot more painful & leaves an ugly scar. So, before you decide on a tatoo just make sure it won't be something you end up hating later on. I am all for tat's if it's truly what you want to do for yourself & not because someone else wants you too. Personally, I don't have any but a lot of my friends got them when we were in college & now they hate them. So, just make sure it's the right thing for you! Good luck w/ whatever you decide!

Stacey

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Bloomdido babe !!!

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When I was around 13 or 14 all the gang did tattoo's with Indian ink and sewing machine needles.We would drink Hombre and Muscatel until in a blither and then do art.I tattooed my first wife's name Gail on both arms.Actually ,on my right arm A friend cut in the name with a razor blade and we poured ink in on my other arm..Was so deep that some of the ink didn't stay in cause kept bleeding out.Anyway obviously being married 3 times and many different relationships I was never thrilled with her name on both my arms. I actually had friends with names crossed out ,like the cartoon, and new name underneath!!!I had a professional in 1970 cover my left arm where I had  her name,a cross and Mom written,a beautiful piece of art.I also had a black panther put over the other arm where the deep half name was .also a beautiful piece of art. Before my real tats I would always wear long shirts as not to see my indian ink botch work..My faith beliefs frown on tattooing of your body so I personally pray about something like that for me although its kind of after the fact.4 years in the Navy and I never got art,NO special reason.I did watch a friend put his wife's name on,she left him while we were out to sea and he had it sandpapered  off(don't think they do that technique anymore and it left a horrible indented scar ,the tat would have been better.So with all that blab my thoughts are although I think they can remove now with lasers,give thought to what you wan,t to be displayed.I have friends that are incredible ink artists and I personally do not believe tats are bad but I work that out with my God when and if im in the realm of more art..Have a blessed day ,good talkin with ya!!!                 I personaly have a Monkey chained to NA logo ,9connotation is the disease has been arrested) a black panther ,a dragon and Michael the archangel stepping on Satans head with a sword showing victory!!When Im standing before my maker ,I may got some splainin to do!!!   :)smile

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Ho,, what a share Mike,, thanks !
Good thing y shared about tatoos and your faith;
now that leaves me feeling that it is ok that I dont have a single tatoo on my body !!!

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Funny how some times I ask a question that I already know the answer to!

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