Having a secret is like hiding. You have to keep "looking over your shoulder" to make sure no one finds out. Secrets keep you on edge, nervous, suspicious, paranoid. When I purged myself of my secrets it was a huge load off my mind. Continuing to do the next right thing helps keep me emotionally healthy and spiritually fit. I have said it before that when I decided to "come clean" about myself and then live a moral life, much of my self centered fear and self loathing vanished. It may have been the single most important decision I have ever made.