hi guys sorry i have been absent for so long there is really no excuse but life kicking me in the a--- i will try to get to meetings and stay currant on the board i amm glad to see raman still here and all the rest of you as well still clean and serene
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Hi Rocky, nice to have you back, Keep staying back, we need you. Where have you been and what have you been doing ? Hope alls well. Appreciate a nice long share from you, hugs !
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Raman an addict clean and serene just for today in NA Worldwide ; live to love and love to live the NA Way !!!
thanks guys i have ben busy healing i hurt my left elbow and had to have surgery my wife and i have had a few probs and other stuff that comes with decades of drug abuse i will try to stick around more and keep in better touch has anyone heard from kittzy at all i hope she is well as weel as all of you
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Rocky and Mikef, I envy you guys for having made the effort to stay married. I believe that being in a marriage is very spiritual. Must be a great support to have a wife that understands, and will keep on, for better or for worse ! I am learning about the things I did that ended my marriage,, still learnin from that 5 years later.
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Raman an addict clean and serene just for today in NA Worldwide ; live to love and love to live the NA Way !!!
Hey Raman! blessings of the morning my brother..yes I am ecstatic in my marriage but to let you know this is my third..First 2 wives didnt make it thru the storm of devastating addiction)(10 years 1st,,about 2 years second)just celebrated 25 years with my wife my soul mate and 'ANGEL" that helped bring me back to life...'"what a long strange trip its been"!!! im like the zza zza gabor of the mens group..My God put it together though, just another miracle.Have a blessed day....peace
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wow, thanks for the experience, strength and hope bro Mikef !! God Bless you and your wife forever more ! Im in fantasy land imagining a wife at my side to help me tide over these difficult times. Especially in the morning after the injection nite, it would have been so nice to have a woman there to talk to, make me an omlette and get me sorted for the day ! Funny thing though, is, hehe, I would never have allowed myself that feeling, rejecting it as too sissy-like. But now I know these things bring the softer side of my personality to the fore, thereby balancing me. Part of recovery has been to feel those feelings. Im glad Im losing many layers of " tough-guy that never breaks" armour, perhaps making me that much more qualified to find a soul-mate, and enjoy an equeal, sustaining relationship ! All the women Im meeting here are into dating, relationship and romance but will cry off once marriage is mentioned; so Im practising another recovery value, PATIENCE ! Two songs come to mind= We have all the time in this world You'd be so nice to come home to Im blessed to have folks like you in my recovery,,,
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Raman an addict clean and serene just for today in NA Worldwide ; live to love and love to live the NA Way !!!
Got your message the other night rock , just handle it and have a meeting pretty much how things are going in there most nights just cant get any help so we have to help ourselves and take initiative. Hope the elbow heals and stop falling down all the time LOL.
been gone but didn't forget this place... that sounds like me
-- Edited by Tahir on Friday 7th of August 2009 03:08:48 PM
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yes i am on my 3 wife the 1 was a wack job same with my 2nd i think she was a bigger enabler than any 3 people on earth my v3rd and i have problems but we at least trywe are going on 17 yrs in january if i live that long ha ha
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