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Post Info TOPIC: Loved Ones...What about us?


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Loved Ones...What about us?


My boyfriend started going to NA meetings last Tuesday.  I feel so stupid because I had no idea he was having such a problem.  7 years ago he was a Meth addict.  He was incarcerated and "kicked" the addiction.  He was loacked up for 5 years.  We have been together for 1 1/2 years.  Now he has been dinking behind my back, alot apparently.  He said he goes now because when he drinks he wants to do Meth or whatever drugs again.  I had no idea and he told me he was embarrased to tell me.  Help me understand this please someone.no

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Its pretty awesome he sees the problem and is working on it. your lucky.
 help for you can be found at    chttp://www.activeboard.com/forum.spark?forumID=42727

 good luck

-- Edited by BigV at 09:44, 2009-01-22

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The fundamental delusion of humanity , is to suppose that I am here and you are out there .

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Thanks, Tambara, for posting and welcome to Miracles in Progress. I sympathize with your situation. It's tough to find out after the fact that you have gotten involved with someone with substance abuse issues. However, at least he has realized he has a problem and needs help, many don't make it that far. You may have some tough choices ahead. I also suggest that you seek help from a support group. Learn what you are going to be dealing with if you continue in the relationship. Get all the information you can from people who have first hand experience to share. If you pray, then pray and seek guidance. I have faith that you will find the guidance and strength you seek. Be Well....

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