Someone in recovery said their goal was to make the uncomfortable comfortable, and the comfortable UNcomfortable....that seems to be true no matter what, for me.  My husband has busted my grandiosity so many times....I guess because I do so to him.  My sponsor said she's too healthy to let anyone "use" her, so I've been trying to meditate on that for myself....but fall short.  I'll say yes to something then get pissed off at myself for doing so later.  How I WISH I were perfect......reality is, we only get wise when we get old....then we DIE!!!!  Who says HP doesn't have a sense of humor