I am in a bit of a querry! I surrond myself with positive people, people who do not use drugs and who found a new way to live....
My husband is also in recovery. After the 3rd call I said to him how did you get our number? Was it from NA? He said "Yeah you dont care" completely self centered invading my serenity for real. I said you call before you pick up the drug not after...Get your AZZ to a NA meeting and I hung up on him.
Now my husband went out 2 x NOV 07, FEB 08 both times when I went to NJ to take care of my cancer filled momma. He went out on CRACK.
I told him if he didnt get serious, work a program, go get some Phych help, or if he used again I will divorce you...Bottom line its over!
Each time our bank account was drained etc.
My husband did get therapy, he is on meds actually and he has gone from having one type of job at his co to actual MANAGEMT.
Our life is wonderful, however I feel really stupid there are electronics missing from our condo, and a rare stamp book, and he swears he didnt take them so I believe him....
This strange man on the other side of the phone really pissed me off. I texted my husband he said no one knew our home number
(Which I have to believe him) But its scarey because at meetings how men only sign the telephone number and woman give numbers WHO THE HELL knows who this is?
How do I regain my peace? I am going to church tonight with 2 fellow recovering people but I am not sure this will do the trick.
So in NA there are no coincidences...My 1st sponsor came and me and her and two other female members went to church tonight.
I started to tell them what I typed in my first response. My 1st sponsor has 3 years and her husband has 3 years. Just as I was telling them she said was his name JOHN? I said yes and than....
This man called her husband and said....."What are you taking me out to dinner? Her husband said no but Ill take you to a meeting.
So as I was telling them about the F UP guy I hung up on he reached out to the founders of these meetings out here and yes he went to a meeting.
Do I feel guilty? No. We give our numbers and and underneath it it says call before you pick up a drug. My harshness must of did something. This is LIFE and Death for me...but tonight I did pray for him, and asked MY HP to forgive me.
Glad you got with others this evening that will bring you peace again having there support good for you honey Bear
A P.s. to all of this is When my husband "went out" smokin Crack he suffered his 3rd Heart attack. It doesnt get any real er than that. For us it is a life or death program.
dont they have caller id there ? maybe then you can call the guy and ask who gave him your number. in fact when answering a stranger its best to ask the question right away !!!!
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Raman an addict clean and serene just for today in NA Worldwide ; live to love and love to live the NA Way !!!
