My husband is a cocaine addict. I don't know what to do anymore. He blames me for his drug use, saying that I make his life miserable. He lost his job 6 months ago and since then, I barely see him. I worry about him constantly. He stays gone for days at a time, only coming home to sleep and change clothes. He has lost almost 30 lbs. in the past 6 mos. and I am afraid he is killing himself. I've become so depressed and discouraged that I've even thought about suicide. Can someone please tell me what to do? I am at a very desperate point right now. I feel like I have no hope. Please, can someone help me?
You can suggest that he joins us in the chat room or go to a live meeting but that is about it. I suggest that talk to the people over at http://naranoncafe.com My wife goes there.
You might want to check out some NaraNon and AlaNon meetings in your area. You will find people there that have experience with your exact situation. They will be very glad to have you and you are very welcome here as well.