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JFT April 20 Detachment
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Addiction is a family disease, but we could only change ourselves. = Many of us come from severely damaged families. At times, the insanity that reigns among our relatives feels overwhelming. Sometimes we feel like packing our bags and moving far, far away. We pray that our family members will...
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New to the board
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Hello, I am just over 100 day's abstinent from opiates. I was a regular user for 8 years, I am now 26 years old and feel like a frightened new born abandoned by it's mother and left to fend for itself. I don't know how to operate or function sober, it's like somebody else entirely has had control of the whee...
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Dealing with gossip
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Can anyone please help me by sharing their experience of malicious gossip in the fellowship. -- Edited by Little Mermaid on Monday 14th of April 2014 12:34:55 PM
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JFT People-pleasing
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...approval-seeking behavior carried us further into our addiction.... Basic Text, p. 14 = When others approve of what we do or say, we feel good; when they disapprove, we feel bad. Their opinions of us, and how those opinions make us feel, can have positive value. By making us feel good about ste...
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JFT April 19 Footwork
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So many times, addicts have sought the rewards of hard work without the labor. Basic Text, p. 34 = When we first came to NA, some of us wanted everything, and right away. We wanted the serenity, the cars, the happy relationships, the friends, the closeness with our sponsorall the things other peopl...
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JFT April 18 "I understand"
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We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. Step Seven = Once we are entirely ready to have our character defects removed, many of us are entirely ready! Ironically, thats when the trouble really starts. The more we struggle to rid ourselves of a particular defect, the stronger that short...
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JFT April 17 Priority: meetings
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I initially felt that it would be impossible to attend more than one or two meetings a week. It just wouldnt fit in with my busy schedule. I later learned that my priorities were [180] degrees reversed. It was the everything else that would have to fit into my meeting schedule. = Some of us attended m...
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JFT April 16 "Acting as if"
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April 16 Acting as if Today, we seek solutions, not problems. We try what we have learned on an experimental basis. Basic Text, p. 58 = The first time we heard that we should act as if, many of us exclaimed, But thats not honest! I thought we were always supposed to be honest about our feelings in Narcoti...
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JFT April 15 Keep coming back
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We have come to enjoy living clean and want more of the good things that the NA Fellowship holds for us. Basic Text, p. 27 = Can you remember a time when you looked at the addicts recovering in NA and wondered, If they arent using drugs, what on earth do they have to laugh about? Did you believe that the fu...
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JFT April 14 A new vision
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Do we really want to be rid of our resentments, our anger, our fear? Basic Text, p. 34 = Why do we call them shortcomings? Perhaps they should be called long-goings, because thats often what it takes for them to fade from our lives. Some of us feel that our shortcomings are the very characteristics...
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Relapsed
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Yesterday I would have been out of rehab for a week and I already relapsed. I informed my hubby and though disappointed he was glad I at least was honest. I gave him my meds to take as I really don't trust myself as much as I hate to admit it. But even worse is the depression that has been worsening each day sin...
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JFT April 11 A closed mind
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A new idea cannot be grafted onto a closed mind.... Open-mindedness leads us to the very insights that have eluded us during our lives. Basic Text, p. 96 = We arrived in NA at the lowest point in our lives. Wed just about run out of ideas. What we needed most when we got here were new ideas, new ways of l...
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JFT April 12 The big picture
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All spiritual awakenings have some things in common. Common elements include an end to loneliness and a sense of direction in our lives. Basic Text, p. 50 = Some kinds of spiritual experiences take place when we confront something larger than we are. We suspect that forces beyond our understan...
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New Here
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I am new here. Could someone explain what this site is about? And would someone please talk to me? Victory
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JFT April 10 Too busy
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We must use what we learn or we will lose it, no matter how long we have been clean. Basic Text, p. 85 = After putting some clean time together, some of us have a tendency to forget what our most important priority is. Once a week or less we say, Ive gotta get to a meeting tonight. Its been... Weve been ca...
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Help!
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Alright, So here I am, fresh out of rehab, off of benzos for a bit over a month, not abusing other meds I take for Bipolar Disorder and sleep....however, my doc recently prescribed me concerta again. This has represented a huge problem for me as besides the benzos, I abused the ever living crap out of sti...
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What to do? What to do?
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Time for a rant. It seems my son is becoming a professional shit head! After the hell that was last year, it appeared and felt like he was finally on a smooth roll, focusing on school and graduating this June (I can't believe he's going to graduate!!)... tackling his anxieties,, working on behaviour mo...
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South Dakota NA members
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Hey everyone, Was just curious if there are any South Dakota people out there, specifically Rapid City?
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JFT April 9 Acting out
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We learn to experience feelings and realize they can do us no harm unless we act on them. IP No. 16, For the Newcomer = Many of us came to Narcotics Anonymous with something less than an overwhelming desire to stop using. Sure, the drugs were causing us problems, and we wanted to be rid of the problems...
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New Member
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Hello everyone, I am a recovering addict and new to this program and wanted to say hi to everyone:) I am an open book so if you have any questions for me ask away!
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Cleandate
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Im Nick and Im an addict from Stockholm - Sweden My Cleandate is: June 10 - 1994
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JFT April 8 Happiness
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We come to know happiness, joy, and freedom. Basic Text, p. 91 = If someone stopped you on the street today and asked if you were happy, what would you say? Well, gee, lets see... I have a place to live, food in the refrigerator, a job, my car is running... Well, yes, I guess Im happy, you might respond...
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JFT April 7 The value of the past
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This firsthand experience in all phases of illness and recovery is of unparalleled therapeutic value. We are here to share it freely with any addict who wants to recover. Basic Text, p. 10 = Most of us came into the program with some serious regrets. We had never finished high school, or we had misse...
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JFT April 6 Growing honesty
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On a practical level, changes occur because whats appropriate to one phase of recovery may not be for another. Basic Text, p. 105 = When we first came to Narcotics Anonymous, many of us had no legitimate occupation. Not all of us suddenly decide were going to become honest and productive model citi...
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JFT April 5 Identification
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Someone finally knew the crazy thoughts that I had and the crazy things Id done. = Addicts often feel terminally unique. Were sure that no one used drugs like we did or had to do the things that we did to get them. Feeling that no one really understands us can keep us from recovery for many years. But o...
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JFT April 4 Guarding our recovery
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Remember that we... are ultimately responsible for our recovery and our decisions. Basic Text, p. 103 = Most of us will face choices that challenge our recovery. If we find ourselves in extreme physical pain, for example, we will have to decide whether or not we will take medication. We will hav...
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JFT April 3 For you alone
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The idea of a spiritual awakening takes many different forms in the different personalities that we find in the fellowship. Basic Text, p. 49 = Though we all work the same steps, each of us experiences the spiritual awakening resulting from them in our own way. The shape that spiritual awakening t...
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JFT April 2 Attraction
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Our public image consists of what we have to offer: a successful, proven way of maintaining a drug-free lifestyle. Basic Text, p. 75 = Yes, we are attracting new members. More and more addicts are finding Narcotics Anonymous. But how do we treat our newest members when they arrive, worn out fro...
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JFT April 1 Love and addiction
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Some of us first saw the effects of addiction on the people closest to us. We were very dependent on them to carry us through life. We felt angry, disappointed, and hurt when they found other interests, friends, and loved ones. Basic Text, p. 7 = Addiction affected every area of our lives. Just as w...
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JFT March 31 Insides and outsides
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Our real value is in being ourselves. Basic Text, p. 105 = As we work the steps, were bound to discover some basic truths about ourselves. The process of uncovering our secrets, exposing them, and searching our characters reveals our true nature. As we become acquainted with ourselves, well nee...
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