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Dave R · Dave R

We are not responsible for our disease, only for our recovery. As we begin to apply what we have learned, our lives begin to change for the better.Basic Text, p. 91=The further we go in recovery, the less we avoid responsibility for ourselves and our actions. By applying the principles of the Narc...

Dave R · Dave R

By surrendering control, we gain a far greater power.Basic Text, p. 44=When we were using, we did everything we could to run things our way. We used every scheme imaginable to bring our world under control. When we got what we wanted, we felt powerful, invincible; when we didn't, we felt vulne...

Dave R · Dave R

Enforced morality lacks the power that comes to us when we choose to live a spiritual life.Basic Text, p. 45=In our active addiction, many of us lived our lives by default. We were unwilling or unable to make choices about how we wanted to act, what we preferred to do, or even where we would live. We...

Eschia · Eschia

Hi All, I'm new to this particular site but not to NA. This site seems a bit inactive unless I'm doing something wrong. In the forum stats, it says there were 152 member views today alone and yet I don't see any posts for today. Is that common here? If so, I may choose a more active NA message board. Thanks al...

Dave R · Dave R

...we could feel time, touch reality, and recognize spiritual values long lost to many of us.Basic Text, p. 88=In our active addiction, we were prepared to compromise everything we believed in just to get our hands on more drugs. Whether we stole from our families and friends, sold ourselves, or l...

Dave R · Dave R

Although politics makes strange bedfellows, as the old saying goes, addiction makes us one of a kind.Basic Text, p. 87=What a mixture of folks we have in Narcotics Anonymous! In any given meeting on any given night, well find a variety of people who probably never would have sat down in a room togeth...

Dave R · Dave R

Everything we know is subject to revision, especially what we know about the truth.Basic Text, p. 94=Many of us thought we could recognize The Truth. We believed the truth was one thing, certain and unchanging, which we could grasp easily and without question. The real truth, however, was tha...

Dave R · Dave R

...praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.Step Eleven=How do we pray? With little experience, many of us don't even know how to begin. The process, however, is neither difficult nor complicated.We came to Narcotics Anonymous because of our drug addiction...

Dave R · Dave R

We did not choose to become addicts.Basic Text, p. 3=When we were growing up, all of us had dreams. Every child has heard a relative or neighbor ask, What do you want to be when you grow up? Even if some of us didn't have elaborate dreams of success, most of us dreamed of work, families, and a future o...

Dave R · Dave R

With the love that I am shown in Narcotics Anonymous, I have no excuse for loneliness.=Addiction is a lonely disease. We may be surrounded by people but, sooner or later, our addiction drives a wedge between us and even our closest loved ones. Many of us are driven to Narcotics Anonymous by a despe...

Dave R · Dave R

Words cannot describe the sense of spiritual awareness that we receive when we have given something, no matter how small, to another person.Basic Text, p. 104=Sometimes it seems as though there is so much wrong with the world that we might as well forget trying to make a difference. After all, we th...

Dave R · Dave R

"When we admit that our lives have become unmanageable, we don't have to argue our point of view...We no longer have to be right all the time."Basic Text, p. 58=Nothing isolates us more quickly from the warmth and camaraderie of our fellow NA members than having to be right. Insecure, we pretend to b...

Dave R · Dave R

"Our best thinking got us into trouble...Recovery is an active change in our ideas and attitudes."Basic Text, p. 55 = In active addiction, the world probably looked like a horrible place. Using helped us tolerate the world we saw. Today, however, we understand that the world's c...

Dave R · Dave R

"Before we got clean, most of our actions were guided by impulse.Today, we are not locked into this type of thinking."Basic Text, p. 90=Ever been tempted to do something even when you knew the results would be disastrous?Ever thought about how much it was going to hurt to do what you were tempted to do,...

Dave R · Dave R

"We emphasize setting our house in order because it brings us relief."Basic Text, p. 97=Focusing on what others are doing can provide momentary relief from having to take a look at ourselves.But one of the secrets of success in Narcotics Anonymous is making sure our own house is in order.So what does...

Dave R · Dave R

"We suspect that if we do not use what we have, we will lose what we have."Basic Text, p. 78=Addiction gave a pattern to our lives, and with it a meaning--a dark, diseased meaning, to be sure, but a meaning nonetheless. The Narcotics Anonymous recovery program gives us a new pattern of living to replace...

Dave R · Dave R

"As recovering addicts, we find that we are still dependent, but our dependence has shifted from the things around us to a loving God and the inner strength we get in our relationship with Him."Basic Text, pp. 71=For many addicts, rebelliousness is second nature. We didn't want to depend on anyon...

Dave R · Dave R

"Many of us have difficulty admitting that we caused harm for others...We cut away our justifications and our ideas of being a victim."Basic Text, p. 38=Our lives are progressing nicely. Things are going good, and each year in recovery brings more material and spiritual gifts. We may have a lit...

Dave R · Dave R

"Projections about actually making amends can be a major obstacle both in making the list and in becoming willing."Basic Text, p. 39=The Eighth Step asks us to become willing to make amends to all persons we have harmed. As we approach this step, we may wonder what the outcome of our amends will be. ...

Dave R · Dave R

"When we first begin to enjoy relief from our addiction, we run the risk of assuming control of our lives again. We forget the agony and pain that we have known.:Basic Text, p. 50=Many of us have been "thirty-day wonders." We were desperate and dying when we showed up at our first NA meeting. We ide...

Dave R · Dave R

"Our egos, once so large and dominant, now take a back seat because we are in harmony with a loving God. We find that we lead richer, happier, and much fuller lives when we lose self-will." Basic Text, p. 105 = Addiction and self-will go hand in hand. The unmanageability that we admitt...

Dave R · Dave R

"We grasp the limitless strength provided for us through our daily prayer and surrender as long as we keep faith and renew it."Basic Text, p. 46=There are two parts to recovery: getting clean, and staying clean. Getting clean is comparatively easy because we only have to do it once. Staying clea...

Dave R · Dave R

"We learn that pain can be a motivating factor in recovery."Basic Text, p. 30="Pain--who needs it!" we think whenever we're in it. We see no good purpose for pain. It seems to be a pointless exercise in suffering. If someone happens to mention spiritual growth to us while we're in pain, we most l...

Dave R · Dave R

"Our real value is in being ourselves."Basic Text, p. 105=Over and over, we have tried to live up to the expectations of those around us. We may have been raised believing that we were okay if we earned good grades in school, cleaned our rooms, or dressed a certain way. Always wanting to belong and be l...

Dave R · Dave R

"When we stop living in the here and now, our problems become magnified unreasonably."Basic Text, p. 99="Just for today"--it's a comforting thought. If we try to live in the past, we may find ourselves torn by painful, disquieting memories. The lessons of our using are not the teachers we seek for...

Dave R · Dave R

"Gradually, as we become more God-centered than self-centered, our despair turns to hope."Basic Text, p. 95=As using addicts, despair was our relentless companion. It colored our every waking moment. Despair was born of our experience in active addiction: No matter what measures we tried to...

Dave R · Dave R

"There is something in our self-destructive personalities that cries for failure."Basic Text, p. 80="Poor me; woe is me; look at me, my life is such a mess! I've fallen, and no matter how hard I try, I continue to fail." Many of us came to NA singing this sad refrain.Life isn't like that anymore. Tru...

Dave R · Dave R

"It will not make us better people to judge the faults of another."Basic Text, p. 38=How easy it is to point out the faults of others! There's a reason for this: The defects we identify most easily in others are often the defects we are most familiar with in our own characters. We may notice our best fr...

Dave R · Dave R

We may fear that being in touch with our feelings will trigger an overwhelming chain reaction of pain and panic. Basic Text, p. 30 = A common complaint about the Fourth Step is that it makes us painfully conscious of our defects of character. We may be tempted to falter in our program of recovery. Th...

Dave R · Dave R

The only suggested guidelines are that this Power be loving, caring, and greater than ourselves. We don't have to be religious to accept this idea. The point is that we open our minds to believe. Basic Text, p. 24 = In a lifelong process of coming to believe, our understanding of God will change. ...

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	JFT October 24 Responsibility (Preview) We are not responsible for our disease, only for our recovery. As we begin to apply what we have learned, our lives begin to change for the better.Basic Text, p. 91=The further we go in recovery, the less we avoid responsibility for ourselves and our actions. By applying the principles of the Narc...	Dave R	1	577	Oct 24, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 23 Surrender (Preview) By surrendering control, we gain a far greater power.Basic Text, p. 44=When we were using, we did everything we could to run things our way. We used every scheme imaginable to bring our world under control. When we got what we wanted, we felt powerful, invincible; when we didn't, we felt vulne...	Dave R	1	607	Oct 23, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 20 Freedom to choose (Preview) Enforced morality lacks the power that comes to us when we choose to live a spiritual life.Basic Text, p. 45=In our active addiction, many of us lived our lives by default. We were unwilling or unable to make choices about how we wanted to act, what we preferred to do, or even where we would live. We...	Dave R	1	2293	Oct 20, 2017 by Dave R
	New to NA (this site) (Preview) Hi All, I'm new to this particular site but not to NA. This site seems a bit inactive unless I'm doing something wrong. In the forum stats, it says there were 152 member views today alone and yet I don't see any posts for today. Is that common here? If so, I may choose a more active NA message board. Thanks al...	Eschia	6	536	Oct 19, 2017 by Davethewave
	JFT October 19 Standing for something (Preview) ...we could feel time, touch reality, and recognize spiritual values long lost to many of us.Basic Text, p. 88=In our active addiction, we were prepared to compromise everything we believed in just to get our hands on more drugs. Whether we stole from our families and friends, sold ourselves, or l...	Dave R	1	624	Oct 19, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 18 We all belong (Preview) Although politics makes strange bedfellows, as the old saying goes, addiction makes us one of a kind.Basic Text, p. 87=What a mixture of folks we have in Narcotics Anonymous! In any given meeting on any given night, well find a variety of people who probably never would have sat down in a room togeth...	Dave R	1	554	Oct 18, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 17 The "truth" (Preview) Everything we know is subject to revision, especially what we know about the truth.Basic Text, p. 94=Many of us thought we could recognize The Truth. We believed the truth was one thing, certain and unchanging, which we could grasp easily and without question. The real truth, however, was tha...	Dave R	1	620	Oct 17, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 16 The simplest prayer (Preview) ...praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.Step Eleven=How do we pray? With little experience, many of us don't even know how to begin. The process, however, is neither difficult nor complicated.We came to Narcotics Anonymous because of our drug addiction...	Dave R	1	605	Oct 16, 2017 by Dave R
	JFt October 15 Choices (Preview) We did not choose to become addicts.Basic Text, p. 3=When we were growing up, all of us had dreams. Every child has heard a relative or neighbor ask, What do you want to be when you grow up? Even if some of us didn't have elaborate dreams of success, most of us dreamed of work, families, and a future o...	Dave R	1	732	Oct 15, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 14 The end of loneliness (Preview) With the love that I am shown in Narcotics Anonymous, I have no excuse for loneliness.=Addiction is a lonely disease. We may be surrounded by people but, sooner or later, our addiction drives a wedge between us and even our closest loved ones. Many of us are driven to Narcotics Anonymous by a despe...	Dave R	1	562	Oct 14, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 13 Making a difference (Preview) Words cannot describe the sense of spiritual awareness that we receive when we have given something, no matter how small, to another person.Basic Text, p. 104=Sometimes it seems as though there is so much wrong with the world that we might as well forget trying to make a difference. After all, we th...	Dave R	1	683	Oct 13, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 12 Being right (Preview) "When we admit that our lives have become unmanageable, we don't have to argue our point of view...We no longer have to be right all the time."Basic Text, p. 58=Nothing isolates us more quickly from the warmth and camaraderie of our fellow NA members than having to be right. Insecure, we pretend to b...	Dave R	1	564	Oct 12, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 11 Eyeglasses and attitudes (Preview) "Our best thinking got us into trouble...Recovery is an active change in our ideas and attitudes."Basic Text, p. 55 = In active addiction, the world probably looked like a horrible place. Using helped us tolerate the world we saw. Today, however, we understand that the world's c...	Dave R	1	894	Oct 11, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 10 Consequences (Preview) "Before we got clean, most of our actions were guided by impulse.Today, we are not locked into this type of thinking."Basic Text, p. 90=Ever been tempted to do something even when you knew the results would be disastrous?Ever thought about how much it was going to hurt to do what you were tempted to do,...	Dave R	1	530	Oct 10, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 9 Order (Preview) "We emphasize setting our house in order because it brings us relief."Basic Text, p. 97=Focusing on what others are doing can provide momentary relief from having to take a look at ourselves.But one of the secrets of success in Narcotics Anonymous is making sure our own house is in order.So what does...	Dave R	1	582	Oct 9, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 8 A new pattern of living (Preview) "We suspect that if we do not use what we have, we will lose what we have."Basic Text, p. 78=Addiction gave a pattern to our lives, and with it a meaning--a dark, diseased meaning, to be sure, but a meaning nonetheless. The Narcotics Anonymous recovery program gives us a new pattern of living to replace...	Dave R	1	693	Oct 8, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 7 Depending on our higher power (Preview) "As recovering addicts, we find that we are still dependent, but our dependence has shifted from the things around us to a loving God and the inner strength we get in our relationship with Him."Basic Text, pp. 71=For many addicts, rebelliousness is second nature. We didn't want to depend on anyon...	Dave R	1	574	Oct 7, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 5 Ask for mercy, not justice (Preview) "Many of us have difficulty admitting that we caused harm for others...We cut away our justifications and our ideas of being a victim."Basic Text, p. 38=Our lives are progressing nicely. Things are going good, and each year in recovery brings more material and spiritual gifts. We may have a lit...	Dave R	4	2985	Oct 6, 2017 by Davethewave
	JFT October 6 Amends without expectations (Preview) "Projections about actually making amends can be a major obstacle both in making the list and in becoming willing."Basic Text, p. 39=The Eighth Step asks us to become willing to make amends to all persons we have harmed. As we approach this step, we may wonder what the outcome of our amends will be. ...	Dave R	1	3138	Oct 6, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 4 Thirty-day wonders (Preview) "When we first begin to enjoy relief from our addiction, we run the risk of assuming control of our lives again. We forget the agony and pain that we have known.:Basic Text, p. 50=Many of us have been "thirty-day wonders." We were desperate and dying when we showed up at our first NA meeting. We ide...	Dave R	1	520	Oct 4, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 3 Losing self-will (Preview) "Our egos, once so large and dominant, now take a back seat because we are in harmony with a loving God. We find that we lead richer, happier, and much fuller lives when we lose self-will." Basic Text, p. 105 = Addiction and self-will go hand in hand. The unmanageability that we admitt...	Dave R	1	4703	Oct 3, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 2 Keeping faith (Preview) "We grasp the limitless strength provided for us through our daily prayer and surrender as long as we keep faith and renew it."Basic Text, p. 46=There are two parts to recovery: getting clean, and staying clean. Getting clean is comparatively easy because we only have to do it once. Staying clea...	Dave R	1	2943	Oct 2, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT October 1 Not just a motivation for growth (Preview) "We learn that pain can be a motivating factor in recovery."Basic Text, p. 30="Pain--who needs it!" we think whenever we're in it. We see no good purpose for pain. It seems to be a pointless exercise in suffering. If someone happens to mention spiritual growth to us while we're in pain, we most l...	Dave R	1	4068	Oct 1, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 30 Being ourselves (Preview) "Our real value is in being ourselves."Basic Text, p. 105=Over and over, we have tried to live up to the expectations of those around us. We may have been raised believing that we were okay if we earned good grades in school, cleaned our rooms, or dressed a certain way. Always wanting to belong and be l...	Dave R	1	553	Sep 30, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 29 Just for Today (Preview) "When we stop living in the here and now, our problems become magnified unreasonably."Basic Text, p. 99="Just for today"--it's a comforting thought. If we try to live in the past, we may find ourselves torn by painful, disquieting memories. The lessons of our using are not the teachers we seek for...	Dave R	1	3160	Sep 29, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 28 Hope (Preview) "Gradually, as we become more God-centered than self-centered, our despair turns to hope."Basic Text, p. 95=As using addicts, despair was our relentless companion. It colored our every waking moment. Despair was born of our experience in active addiction: No matter what measures we tried to...	Dave R	1	3528	Sep 28, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 27 Right back up (Preview) "There is something in our self-destructive personalities that cries for failure."Basic Text, p. 80="Poor me; woe is me; look at me, my life is such a mess! I've fallen, and no matter how hard I try, I continue to fail." Many of us came to NA singing this sad refrain.Life isn't like that anymore. Tru...	Dave R	1	557	Sep 27, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 26 Seeing ourselves in others (Preview) "It will not make us better people to judge the faults of another."Basic Text, p. 38=How easy it is to point out the faults of others! There's a reason for this: The defects we identify most easily in others are often the defects we are most familiar with in our own characters. We may notice our best fr...	Dave R	1	3147	Sep 26, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 25 The Fourth Step--fearing our feelings (Preview) We may fear that being in touch with our feelings will trigger an overwhelming chain reaction of pain and panic. Basic Text, p. 30 = A common complaint about the Fourth Step is that it makes us painfully conscious of our defects of character. We may be tempted to falter in our program of recovery. Th...	Dave R	2	3094	Sep 25, 2017 by Dave R
	JFT September 24 A growing concept of God (Preview) The only suggested guidelines are that this Power be loving, caring, and greater than ourselves. We don't have to be religious to accept this idea. The point is that we open our minds to believe. Basic Text, p. 24 = In a lifelong process of coming to believe, our understanding of God will change. ...	Dave R	2	3298	Sep 25, 2017 by Dave R
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