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JFT June 25, 2018 Not just lucky
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Not just lucky Page 183"The process of coming to believe restores us to sanity. The strength to move into action comes from this belief."Basic Text, p. 25Coming to believe is a process that stems from personal experience. Each of us has this experience; all addicts who find recovery in NA have solid e...
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JFT June 24, 2018 Tolerance
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TolerancePage 182 "...ever reminding us to place principles before personalities." Tradition Twelve Sometimes it's hard to accept others' character defects. As we recover together, we not only listen to others talk in meetings, we also watch how they walk through their recovery. The more we get...
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Is there a guideline about this? Or, am I being used by others?
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I am the treasurer for a meeting that currently does not have a GSR. My sponsor who is also the literature person for this same meeting says that since the group has no GSR that I am 'next in line' as far as going to Area meetings, buying more literature, as well as other supplies. Or, does it sound to you li...
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JFT June 22, 2018 Accepting life as it is
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Accepting life as it isPage 180 "In our recovery, we find it essential to accept reality. Once we can do this, we do not find it necessary to use drugs in an attempt to change our perceptions." Basic Text, p. 90 Drugs used to buffer us from the full force of life. When we stop using drugs and enter recovery,...
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JFT June 21, 2018 New levels of honesty
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New levels of honestyPage 179 "We have been experts at self-deception and rationalization." Basic Text, p. 28 When we come to our first meeting and hear that we must be honest, we may think, "Well now, that shouldn't be too difficult. All I have to do is stop lying." To some of us, this comes easily. We no...
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JFT June 20, 2018 Meditation for beginners
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Meditation for beginnersPage 178 "For some, prayer is asking for God's help; meditation is listening for God's answer...Quieting the mind through meditation brings an inner peace that brings us into contact with the God within us." Basic Text, pp. 46-47 "Be patient when you're learning to medita...
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JFT June 19, 2018 A sense of humor
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A sense of humorPage 177 "We find that when we lose self-obsession, we are able to understand what it means to be happy, joyous, and free." Basic Text, p. 107 The laughter in our meetings often surprises the newcomer. As a group, we appreciate the healing that healthy laughter brings. Even if we are dee...
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JFT June 18, 2018 Indirect amends
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Indirect amendsPage 176 "Indirect amends may be necessary where direct ones would be unsafe or endanger other people." Basic Text, p. 41 When we used, we allowed nothing to stand in the way of that next high. As a result, many of us didn't always know precisely whom we had injured, either financially o...
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JFT June 17, 2018 Walls
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WallsPage 175 "Reaching out is the beginning of the struggle that will set us free. It will break down the walls that imprison us." Basic Text, p. 83 Many of us came to NA emotionally shattered. Years of using people and allowing them to use us had taken their toll on our ability to trust anyone, ourselve...
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JFT June 15, 2018 Resistance to change
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Resistance to changePage 173 "Many of us cling to our fears, doubts, self-loathing, or hatred because there is a certain distorted security in familiar pain. It seems safer to embrace what we know than to let go of it for the unknown." Basic Text, p. 34 We have often heard it said that "when the pain of re...
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JFT June 14, 2018 Maintaining our faith
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Page 172 "If we maintain our spiritual condition daily, we find it easier to deal with the pain and confusion." Basic Text, p. 95 When we first began searching for a Power greater than ourselves, many of us got stuck in old beliefs or ideas. These ranged from the fear of a punishing or vengeful God to no be...
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JFT June 13, 2018 A full life
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A full lifePage 171 "The programs works a miracle in our lives...We become free to live." Basic Text, p. 11 Most of us - if we've been in recovery for any length of time at all - have heard some member complaining in a meeting about being terribly overworked, too busy for meetings or sponsorship or other a...
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JFT June 12, 2018 A vision of hope
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A vision of hopePage 170 "Yes, we are a vision of hope..." Basic Text, p. 53 By the time we reached the end of our road, many of us had lost all hope for a life without the use of drugs. We believed we were destined to die from our disease. What an inspiration it was, then, coming to our first meeting and seeing...
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The Spiritual Principle behind Step One
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I just finished my Step One. I love the fact that this Forum exist! I would love to have a discussion on Step One and the Spiritual Principles behind it. I am lucky enough to have low tolerance for pain and suffering. It took me a while to admit that I was an addict. After losing so many jobs and apartments,...
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understanding Step One
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ok I am coming to terms my way is getting me no where but the bad part is I already knew this stuff but now I have to put it back into action yesI am powerless YES unmanagable ok ok I surrenser my will and my life over to the care of Gods as I understand him that wasn't too hard now to I believe could and would if h...
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JFT June 11, 2018 Living clean
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Living cleanPage 169 "As we recover, we gain a new outlook on being clean...Life can become a new adventure for us." Basic Text, p. 91 The using life is not a clean one - no one knows this better than we do. Some of us lived in physical squalor, caring neither for our surroundings nor ourselves. Worse, tho...
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JFT June 10, 2018 Changing motives
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Changing motivesPage 168 "When we finally get our own selfish motives out of the way, we begin to find a peace that we never imagined possible." Basic Text, p. 45 As we examine our beliefs, our actions, and our motives in recovery, we'll find that sometimes we do things for the wrong reasons. In our earl...
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JFT June 08, 2018 The only requirement
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The only requirementPage 166 "This program offers hope. All you have to bring with you is the desire to stop using and the willingness to try this new way of life." IP No. 16, For the Newcomer From time to time we wonder if we're "doing it right" in Narcotics Anonymous. Are we attending enough meetings?...
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JFT June 07, 2018 Someone who believes in me
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Someone who believes in mePage 165 "Just for today, I will have faith in someone in NA who believes in me and wants to help me in my recovery." Basic Text, p. 100 Not all of us arrive in NA and automatically stay clean. But if we keep coming back, we find in Narcotics Anonymous the support we need for our reco...
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June 06, 2018 Recovery doesn't happen overnight
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Recovery doesn't happen overnight Page 164"The Twelve Steps of Narcotics Anonymous are a progressive recovery process established in our daily living."Basic Text, p. 99After some time in recovery, we may find we are faced with what seem like overwhelming personal problems, angry feelings, and...
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June 04, 2018 Build, don't destroy
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Build, don't destroyPage 162 "Our negative sense of self has been replaced by a positive concern for others." Basic Text, p. 16 Spreading gossip feeds a dark hunger in us. Sometimes we think the only way we can feel good about ourselves is to make someone else look bad by comparison. But the kind of self...
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June 05, 2018 Honest prayer
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Honest prayerPage 163 "Although honesty is difficult to practice, it is most rewarding." Basic Text, p. 96 How difficult we find it to be honest! Many of us come to NA as confused about what really happened in our lives that it sometimes takes months and years to sort it all out. The truth of our history i...
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June 03, 2018 Direct and indirect amends
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Direct and indirect amendsPage 161 "We make our amends to the best of our ability." Basic Text, p. 40 The Ninth Step tells us to make direct amends wherever possible. Our experience tells us to follow up those direct amends with long-lasting changes in our attitudes and our behavior - that is, with in...
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Funding update
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Hello all Good News Tanin has turned off the Community fund request on each message Board The Community Funding solicitation. was extremely successful as we received enough to cover. about 20 months at $17.98 per month.We are nos paid up until l April 2019. Thank you all for your generosity...
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JFT June 01, 2018 Keep coming back
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Keep coming backPage 159 "We don't have to be clean when we get here but, after the first meeting, we suggest that newcomers keep coming back and come back clean. We don't have to wait for an overdose or jail sentence to get help from Narcotics Anonymous." Basic Text, pp. 10-11 Very few of us arrive in NA b...
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JFt May 31, 2018 Keep it simple
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Keep it simplePage 156 "We live a day at a time but also from moment to moment. When we stop living in the here and now, our problems become magnified unreasonably." Basic Text, p. 99 Life often seems too complicated to understand, especially for those of us who've dodged it for so long. When we stopped u...
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JFT May 30, 2018 Loneliness vs. being alone
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Loneliness vs. being alonePage 156 "Sharing with others keeps us from feeling isolated and alone." Basic Text, p. 85 There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being lonely is a state of the heart, an emptiness that makes us feel sad and sometimes hopeless. Loneliness is not always a...
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JFT May 29, 2018 Carry me
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Carry mePage 155 "We believe that our Higher Power will take care of us." Basic Text, p. 58 We all have times when it seems as though our lives are falling apart. There are days, or even weeks, when it seems that everything that can go wrong is going wrong. Whether it's the loss of a job, the death of a lo...
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JFT May 28, 2018 As we understand
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As we understandPage 154 "We examined our lives and discovered who we really are. To be truly humble is to accept and honestly try to be ourselves." Basic Text, p. 36 As using addicts, the demands of our disease determined our personality. We could be whoever or whatever we needed to be in order to get ou...
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JFT May 24, 2018 Risking vulnerability
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Risking vulnerabilityPage 150 "As we grow, we learn to overcome the tendency to run and hide from ourselves and our feelings." Basic Text, p. 85 Rather than risk vulnerability, many of us have developed habits that keep others at a safe distance. These patterns of emotional isolation can give us the...
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