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Post Info TOPIC: Clarifying the clarity statement !!!


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Clarifying the clarity statement !!!
 


Beware folks,, one individual is trying to creat havoc by mis-quoting and misrepresenting facts about the clarity statement.

Plese read the following and be very careful about taking sides. 

"In keeping with the focus of unity found in the 12 steps, and traditions of narcotics anonymous, we ask that you use the NA language of recovery. That means; we refer to our disease simply as Addiction.
We identify simply as addicts.
We refer to our time as clean time or Recovery.
This is not done to be different, better than, or controversial. This is done because in our 1st step, we shifted the focus off Specific drugs, and onto the disease of addiction. So that the recovery process is then possible.
This leaves us with the single focus on the unity necessary for recovery.
Any labels which imply specific drugs, or more than one disease dilutes that focus, therefore causing the unity called for in our 1st tradition to be lost
"

"In Narcotics Anonymous, we are presented with a dilemma. When NA members identify themselves as "addicts and alcoholics," "cross-addicted, " or talk about living "clean and sober," the clarity of the
NA message is blurred.
To speak in this manner suggests that there
are two diseases; that one drug is separate from the rest. Narcotics
Anonymous
makes no distinction between drugs. Our identification as
addicts is all-inclusive, allowing us to concentrate on our
similarities, not our differences"


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Where does it say we should not name the drugs we used ??
It simply requests us to identify us addicts, no matter what drugs we used.

Where does it control the language we use ?
It simply requests us to refrain from identifying us as addict and alcohoilc and thereby imply two different diseases. It guides us to understand that addiction is what we are recovering from and not specific substances.

So,, what is wrong with that ?
What is wrong with the clarity statement being read in NA meetings ?

Would Wrold Srvice Conference and World Service Office have brought that out if it conflicted with our Traditions ?
No.

Be very careful.
This individual called Bruce sounds convincing but look at a previous post a see his history of going around the Fellowship and being shunned for his attempts at dis-unity.

We keep what we have only with vigilance,,,



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This whole controversy reminds me of the proverbial stray cat.
It will only go away when we stop feeding it.

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Keep it in the day.


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Morning it is so...I  normally don't "feed these cats" but yesterday I violated my 'own traditions" and replied my final aloha! more in defense of my friends and the tranquility of this forum, but WE ARE ALL BIG BOYS AND GIRLS HERE AND THAT WAS MY STUFF FEELING LIKE THE PROTECTIVE GRANDFATHER  all I can say is WORLD SERVICE BOARD BULLETIN#13. A debate here that will end in a split just like "is it a disease" etc. I have forgiven myself for not leaving it alone and am praying for the individual and my future better judgement.I can share anything that affects my recovery as long as it is experience and not opinion,NOT DEVISIVE', I am not stuck in problem but working in the solution and it is my stuff not necessarily that of NA.Lets get back to our "primary " purpose carrying the NA message that an addict ,any addict can stop using drugs,lose the desire to use and find a new way to live.If you are new here ,please don;t let this blurp in our forum turn you away.We are here for each other,free to share in a loving caring manner...Have a blessed and productive day! We will love each other until we can learn to love ourselves.....smile

-- Edited by MIKEF on Friday 4th of June 2010 08:16:51 PM

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jeeze louise!

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ha, ha, well,, Im not certain if Im confused or you are Bruce.
If you go into it, these are only suggestions, well taken by most when sharing.

Most people do that by their own free will and choice, and do not see that an infringement of their personal freedom.
I do so too.

After all in AA an alcoholic would say " Im an alcoholic " cause thats what they are recovering from.
In Gamblers Anonymous they'd say "Im a gambler" cause gambling is what they are recovering from.
In Sex Addicts they say "Im a sex addict" cause sex addict is what they are recovering from

That's why in NA we identify as addicts, cause addiction is what we are recovering from.

And buddy look, lets get honest here.
Youve been asking questions so Im asking one of you too=
Is raking up issues and creating disturbances your secondary addiction ?
Are you an arsonist that's become passive but still in the grips of the dis-ease ?

Your actions point out to a violent nature that you havent applied recovery Princciples to.
And you've been hiding it under the phoney image of appearing to act on behalf of the newcomer.

That's a dirty game youre playing and another questions is
" How many newcomers has Bruce sent back to the streets by manipulating them into thinking like him ? "
(self-righteous, rebel without a cause and perpetually angry and not accepting of reality)

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And remember that this is a for the addict by the addict Program.

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Once again Bruce, youre quoting things out of context and taking bits and pieces without stating the full sentence.
 
I too share many times about how drunk I was or how high Id gotten or how desperate; yes I do. No one's objected to that.
 
However, I do not say 
" My name is Raman and I am an alcoholic and a addict".
I simply say " My name is Raman and I am an addict". 
I do this of my own free will and volition.

This shows Im not confused about who I really am.
But you bud, by trying to enforce your view that we can do as we like are encouraging confusion and self-doubt. 
Not only are you confused and in grave self-doubt, but would like others to be like that too,
so you can say
"Im not alone in this".

Just as you insisit you have a right to and say as you please, so do I insist that I will use NA specific language in my shares and identify as an addict and an NA member.

Dont you see your error now Brucie ???
Please admit the exact nature of your wrongs, for no matter how long you may argue or how tight that arguement may seem, it is basically in the wrong direction.

In the process, members less experienced with the application of the Traditions are being misguided by you.

-- Edited by Raman on Wednesday 2nd of June 2010 01:10:13 AM

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they don't call you guru for nothing raman i havce thought that th

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aw shucks Bret,, Im just a recovering addict, hoping to stay humble under the Grace of God.
thanks, that feels good after being under attack by Bruce.


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Raman wrote:

Where does it say we should not name the drugs we used ??
It simply requests us to identify us addicts, no matter what drugs we used.

Where does it control the language we use ?
It simply requests us to refrain from identifying us as addict and alcohoilc and thereby imply two different diseases. It guides us to understand that addiction is what we are recovering from and not specific substances.

So,, what is wrong with that ?
What is wrong with the clarity statement being read in NA meetings ?

Would Wrold Srvice Conference and World Service Office have brought that out if it conflicted with our Traditions ?
No.

Be very careful.
This individual called Bruce sounds convincing but look at a previous post a see his history of going around the Fellowship and being shunned for his attempts at dis-unity.

We keep what we have only with vigilance,,,



Raman, trust me, I've quickly become a non-fan of Bruce, however, I take issue with some of what you've posted...

The clarity statement is NOT NA approved, none of them are and that's one of the reasons NAWS committees opted not to make it approved literature... too many versions.

In "What Is The NA Program", which is approved NA literature, it says, "We don't care what or how much you used..."  I interpret that to mean that it not necessary to talk about specific drugs or behaviors and, frankly, I think it's a good idea not to.  Newcomers can be easily triggered... IN MEETINGS.  When I was new and someone talked about my drug of choice in a meeting, my stomach would rumble.  Hell, the flick of a lighter affected me that way in a long time.

The newcomer is the most important person at ANY NA meeting and we can strive to be responsible in our sharing.  We have sponsors to talk with about our specific drug use, etc.  Meetings should be a place where we share experience, strength and hope.

 



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In NA, we follow a program adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous. More than one million people have recovered in A.A., 

most of them just as hopelessly addicted to alcohol as we were 

to drugs. We are grateful to the A.A. Fellowship for showing us 

the way to a new life.

The Twelve Steps of Narcotics Anonymous, as adapted from 

A.A., are the basis of our recovery program. We have only broadened their perspective. We follow the same path with a single exception; our identification as addicts is all-inclusive with respect 

to any mood-changing, mind-altering substance. Alcoholism is 

too limited a term for us; our problem is not a specific substance, 

it is a disease called addiction. We believe that as a fellowship, 

we have been guided by a Greater Consciousness, and are grateful for the direction that has enabled us to build upon a proven 

program of recovery



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